The guy I am dating kind of use his son as execuse when I asked him to get together sometime. How can you tell he is really busy/tied up or just playing games (his son is 12 year old) and last night when I text msg him to have dinner for tonight he got back to me 4 hours later and says "I am taking my son to a movie tomorrow at 7 u could always come if u wish" I found it a bit to reluctant so I declined. How can I tell he is serious. should I just wait for him for the next move and not text msg him any more? Please help.
2006-10-27 10:23:17 · 7 answers · asked by 1001Questions 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ps. this guy is 52 years old. why a mature guy playing games. I am 15 years yonger than him but I really like him
2006-10-27 10:57:20 · update #1
I would not call him or bug see what happens act like your too busy as well
2006-10-27 10:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by calieyecandy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you want time with him, but his son is always going to be #1. Blood is a lot thicker than water, so there isnt much you can do. But, he did invite you to go, so chances are he wasn't lying. I would get close to the son, he would probably really love that. At the same time I would also ask him if he thinks he has enough time for a good relationship.
2006-10-27 10:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait on him for the next move. If he don't call then you will know. you can also buy the book he's just not into you.
2006-10-27 10:33:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest u date someone without kids like yourself.. unless u r ready to embrace the kid things.. or unless u have more between you guys...doesnt sound like this is working for u is my guess. or being willing to meet weekly for hot torrid sex without children..around
2006-10-27 10:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put the ball in his court, and see if he text you. Let him ask you out!
2006-10-27 10:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he isnt that serious with you. read tips on dating and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-10-27 10:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by lushy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make contact with him, let him contact you.
2006-10-27 10:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋