2006-10-27 10:12:06 · 53 answers · asked by Rikah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You must have very low self esteem to stay in such a negative and abusive relationship. Verbal abuse is often an indicator that physical abuse may follow. Respect yourself first if you expect respect from others. You would be well advised to leave this relationship. If you insist on staying, then you need to set down some firm codes of behavior. Any kind of abusive behavior, whether it is emotional, verbal or physical is unacceptable and should not be tolerated. Why don't you show him these messages.
2006-10-27 10:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is not just going to stop. Does he say it in a rude hatefull way or in front of your friends? No one deserves to be called stupid, but it sounds like he is the stupid one for not realizing how much he is hurting you. Girl if he really cared about you he would not say those things. Let him know how you feel and if it still continues tell him that you are gone, that you are not going to let an ignorant man put you down anymore.... then ask him how stupid he thinks you are! Good luck
2006-10-27 10:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by knlsmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two questions.
1.Are you?
2.Why are you still dating someone that makes you feel stupid?
3.Move on,that will shut him up.
2006-10-27 10:15:38 · answer #3 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all u have to do is say okay if I am so stupid then why do u want me so bad. but u have to make sure on thatday u look really good! Then u walk off and talk with one of your friends and talk to them. Then hopefully if he is a good boyfriend he will call ur name and u will answer and walk back to him and be all over him but if he follows u then he is sorry and he really does love you/like you!
2006-10-27 10:16:11 · answer #4 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd be stupid if you stayed with a guy like that. No one deserves that kind of treatment. Leave the guy and find someone that will treat you with some respect. He certainly is not doing that.
2006-10-27 10:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewwwww, I wouldn't be with a guy that considers me stupid thats for sure. He should be taking the time to teach you about the things he's trying to talk to you about if you have no knowledge of it, or find someone who he thinks he has more in common with, but certainly he shouldn't be referring to you as stupid or dumb.
2006-10-27 10:15:40 · answer #6 · answered by jupitor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to let his *** go.I just left mine and i feel damn good.You are worth a million dollars and a man shouldnt treat you like you are any less than what you are.Shouldnt no man put you down and make you feel low bout yourself.Honey you are a "Queen"and you can find you a man that is goin to treat you like the"Queen that you are. so i say kick his *** out and you keep your head up.Go find you that "king" thats going to treat you like the "Queen" you are.
2006-10-27 10:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs.flowers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him.
Demand respect. You're a lady and no guy aint gonna shut u up and call you stupid. I wouldnt take it... if he were my bf... he woulda had his words shoved right back down his throat!
2006-10-27 10:16:40 · answer #8 · answered by illrckurwrldbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, if your boyfriend is telling you to shut up and that your stupid, dump the loser, and believe me you'll get him to shut up. Toodles
2006-10-27 10:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by squeeks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him, he does not respect you. It must make you feel bad, so do not let him hurt you any more, find someone who loves you, for your self, and who will not be calling you any names. Think about it. If he loved you he would not be rude to you. I think it is time for you, to have some fun, with out him. Because he is not going to ever make you happy!
2006-10-27 10:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋