<.< the other question inspired me XD
2006-10-27 10:10:06 · 10 answers · asked by Curious George 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tough question.
1 We don't want to discuss our deepest fears/feelings much.
2 We love you, even if we don't do things like putting rose petals on the covers before bed.
3 It is unfair to ask us our opinion of your newest hair style/dress/singing/cooking/what makes you look fat. We lose no matter what we do.
4 You're the best thing for us no matter what we say out loud.
2006-10-27 10:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Rich B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not that we do not love you but we just need a little free time. I am not talking alot. But if the guys at work are going to have a beer a hooter or shoot a few games a pool at a bar after work we would like to without hiding it or having to listen to a lot of ****. Then we would be happy to come home and spend time with you.
If we look at other women we are just looking. We do not mean anything by it. It is just nature. Yall know you are beautiful.
We have to plan what we are going to say. If we speak our minds it come out wrong unless our minds our busy on something else while the conversation is going on.
It is hard for us to catch hints. Be more direct. Do not hint things to us. Come out and tell us. You will get more of what you want this way.
2006-10-27 17:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking for myself, the following:
1) I am a human being just like you.. I am not some stereotype of macho whatever..
2) Life is just as real for me as it is for you.
3) men and women clearly look differently, guess what, we think differently too.. we are different in a lot of respects.. this is why we compliment each other in life. Two perspectives are better than one.
4) I don't want to raise you, take care of you, be your dad in any way... I would like to be your life partner.
5) WE GET HIT ON JUST AS MUCH AS YOU DO.
6) We tolerate manipulation because we know you learned it way back there.. That doesn't mean we don't see it for what it is.. Don't abuse it.
7) We do not know about the flowers, attention, compliments, etc naturally.. we have to learn it... to us after the investment has been made (that would be courting), we expect to reap the benefits of our investment... Some of us learn that the courtship is really important to you so we make an effort to keep that part alive (as well we should), however, you need to understant that is not our natural state! We do it because it's important to you.
- that should be a good start.. Thanks for asking.
2006-10-27 17:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that not all guys are jerks, or after sex. It really doesn't help if a girl assumes those things at the outset.
2006-10-27 17:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We dont just care about looks. We want women to have a sense of humor too. Not all guys are *******. Dont just care about yourselves and dont be so materialistic. If you have a great boyfriend, dont flirt with other guys. Dont choose to be with your guy friend than with your boyfriend. We want women with meat on their bones.
2006-10-27 17:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
behind all that macho stuff, there is a little boy who desires to be understood, loved and cared for. that guys want to be accepted(dont try fixing them),admired(he wants to be the best in your eyes) and he certainly does not want you to be another mummy figure telling him what to do and what not to do.he wants to be respected.
2006-10-27 17:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want you to know that i love you baby no matter what :)
2006-10-27 17:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm....
about her family and parents. her prev. boyfiends.
2006-10-27 17:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nitron 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What teeth are and are not for
2006-10-27 17:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by Devon T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
insecurity is not attractive.
2006-10-27 17:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by naughtybabyjesus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋