Why is it that the last child gets away with everything? I qm the oldest and I cought hell growing up, my little sister get's away with everything that I used to get smacked for. The same thing is going on with my kids. My youngst child has a problem with throwing things but I kind of let it go, cause truth be told.....He has a good arm!
2006-10-27 09:38:47 · 10 answers · asked by Mohogany Brown 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
parenting ways have changed alot over the years. We parents tend to have more sympathy now.....but don't let him throw stuff okay....lol
2006-10-27 09:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just the nature of the beast!
My oldest gets into more trouble then his little brother and they are only 16 minutes apart!
I think the reason we don't bust Jason as much as Brian is because
Brain is happy because he is throwing something.
Jason is throwing something because he's happy.
The principle No throwing period should be enforced every time
But it's hard when the throw was an act of joy!
2006-10-27 16:44:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lesley C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was the same way .I was the youngest though and my brothers were oldest and they always got in trouble and I never did.. I think its crap honestly.. I dont let my youngest get away with anything that my oldest didn't.. I think all kids need to be treated fairly I know my brothers hated it and I regret that to this day. Thats why my youngest gets in trouble if he did something he knows hes not suppose to...
People are saying that they don't have energy or the don't sweat the small stuff anymore with the last child. thats whats wrong with kids this days.. You should displine all your children the same..
2006-10-27 16:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have a 2yr old and a 4mo old....and plan to get pregnant once the 4mo old is 1...........but I honestly don't think that the youngest one will get away with stuff..........if anything I think I might let the oldest one get away with stuff just because he was my 1st born and his daddy left us right after he was born.........we ended up getting back together a yr later but my son didn't have his dad around for a whole year and now my 4mo old daughter has her daddy at her every whim...........he does everything with her and for her and is even throwing her a big party for her baptism next saturday and he wasn't even at my son's baptism and i had to do a party all by myself..........so that is why i think my son (oldest) will probably get away with stuff............nothing major,,,,,,just small little things.. :)
2006-10-27 17:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience, and being the baby myself. Your tired as a parent and don't sweat the small stuff. I got away with most everything when I was young as I was the baby. And now, I am a parent of 3, my oldest was disciplined the most and my baby gets away with more. No energy left to fight the small things.
2006-10-27 16:44:04 · answer #5 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the time that last child comes along mom is to damm tired to stop cleaning the house or what ever other work she is doing to spank the little devil. Lucky kid.
2006-10-27 16:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree! I was the oldest and my mom was unbelieveably strick on me. i have 3 younger sisters and its a total difference, i make sure to let them know they are lucky duckies! ha ha
I think that your just tired of fighting the enevitable!
2006-10-27 17:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by crystald 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because the parents are tired by the time the last one comes along so they through their hands up and let them do whatever.
2006-10-27 22:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by NEET29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My youngst child has a problem with throwing things but I kind of let it go, cause truth be told.....He has a good arm! "
When you complain about something, make sure you do not do it yourself!........................
2006-10-27 22:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is because the younger ones are alway so cute once they are 13 that cute **** wont work
2006-10-27 16:42:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋