is it right to go out with my sisters ex boyfriend 2 months after they split plus he is 28 years older then me???
2006-10-27 09:36:02 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you love him?
Yes?
Then why do you need to ask US, people you don't know, and who don't know the whole situiation, if it's a good thing for you or not?
If you love someone, it doesn't matter how old they are, or who they dated before you.
It's a good thing to date an older guy anyway. They will treat you with more respect, and they'll be able to help you in ways no young boy would be able to.
2006-10-27 09:40:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sillycat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the first place why would you want to date a man that is old enough to be your father and secondly if you are asking this question it is telling you that it is wrong to date your sister's ex because you don't even know if she still has feelings for him there are lines you don't cross and this was one of them dating a family's ex or a friend ex you are regreting your decision that it is why you are asking this and this fact alone should tell you it is wrong for you to be dating such an old man he's a pervert get rid of him I hope your sister wasn't hurt by what you did
2006-10-27 09:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay here is a formula that will help you figure it out. You take the age difference divided by the number of months since the break up and multiply by 1.5. 28/2 X 1.5 = 21, since the number is higher than 20 it is ok.
2006-10-27 09:39:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think its a good idea.
1. He is your sisters ex boyfriend, thats wrong.
2. Most importantly, he is 28 years older, he knows a lot more than you and could have you for all the wrong reasons. Don't do it, please!
2006-10-27 09:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is so large! I would say no when I heard the age without even having to think about your sister. But you should never do something like that to someone you love. You sister is way more important than any guy and it could make her upset.
2006-10-27 09:39:31 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! You know to me it does not seem right , not because of the age, but because of the time period since ur sister split up with him. I mean its too recent, but then again how long were they together?
the difference of age . well that is ur bussines, I mean u know what u want.In the end its up to u. Most people would see the relationship as wrong. But if ur into him stick with it and dont give a dam of what other people think!!
2006-10-27 09:46:47 · answer #6 · answered by homie101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO IT AINT RIT!!!! its not rite because u never go out with your best frens EX..or ESPECIALLY your sisters EX...dats a big NO NO and plus hes 28 year older than you
2006-10-27 09:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by [[ CELTiCS ]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, I think you need to sit down and analyze the situation a little more. A man of that age difference is big trouble for you, whether it's federal trouble or emotional trouble.
2006-10-27 09:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your sister how she would feel if you were to date her ex. Don't you think he is a bit too old for you? What could you two possibly have in common with such a vast age difference?
2006-10-27 09:37:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
automatically my answer is NO NO NO! but I guess that depends on you and your sisters relationship, and not only that what are the chances you will work out with him if she didnt and with the age difference that could be and probly is a really big factor in why it didnt work out, I mean its possible but not likely. Please dont waste your time, Good Luck!
2006-10-27 09:40:15 · answer #10 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋