Me and my boyfriend have tried on numerous occasions to make things right between us. I am having a hard time being with him and his reply to everything is..."It shouldnt be this hard to be with someone", but Im trying my hardest. I moved out of my house into an apartment, which I really can't afford but to be with him. Here is the catch though, he has never been to my apartment. He thinks something is wrong or that I am lying about having the apartment. It is not that, it is just the people I live with hate him and think he is all wrong for me and I don't want any drama between anyone so I keep HIM away. He says it is not fair. Now he is the type of person to speak his mind and so is my roommate Aubry. I don't know what to do. Im running out of excuses and reasons to make him stay.
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP....IM TEXTING HIM RIGHT NOW
2006-10-27 09:29:46 · 5 answers · asked by PrInCeSs P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HUH?? if you can't get along with him and your friends know that he is so wrong for you that they don't want him at YOUR home...then why in the hell are you with him..why did you leave your house??was it like your parents home..or did you leave your house for him to have it?? if your friends don't approve and he doesn't take the time to even know where you live ,or try to get along with your friends then why waste your time and energy ..through out this whole thing you wrote nothing about you loving this man ..why do you need and excuse or reason to make him stay??? you should be by yourself and be happy with you and your life and find someone that respects you and your life and wants to make it easier for you..there are many more fish in the sea...MOVE ON if it hasn't worked "numerous times" then what has changed to make it work..slowly read your question out loud to yourself..how would you answer this question if I asked it???Then that's what you should do..
2006-10-27 09:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that your boyfriend doesn't trust you. You've fallen over backwards to make him happy but all he can say is how hard the relationship is. It's time to move on, he's not making any compromises and you don't need the stress.
2006-10-27 16:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's right. ..."It shouldnt be this hard to be with someone"
You're going nowhere with him. Find someone you're more compatible with. The people you live with are right.
2006-10-27 16:33:08 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not think of him too much ,girl look for another man.
2006-10-27 16:33:00 · answer #4 · answered by beauty girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him...and then ask him how hard it is to find someone that will love him....
2006-10-27 16:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by c t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋