THERES THIS GIRL I LIKE IN SCHOOL SHE IS IN ONE OF MY CLASSES I DONT KNOW MUCH ABOUT HER BUT SHE IS QUIET IN CLASS.ABOUT THREE DAYS AGO AFTER CLASS I SAID HELLO TO HER AND ASKED HER IF SHE ENJOYED THE CLASS(WE WATCHED A DOCU -MOVIE IN THAT CLASS ) THEN SHE SMILED AND SAID HI AND SHE SAID YA IT WAS SO EXCITING BUT WE ONLY TALKED ABOUT 2 MINUTES . THE NEXT DAY I COULDNT SAY NOTHING BECAUSE SHE WASV TALKING TO SOMEE GUY AND GIRL THEN THEN TODAY I SAID;HEY KAYLEIGH YOU LOOK PRETTY TODAY AND SAY OH YEAH OR SOMETHING. DONT KNOW IF SHE WAS LOST FOR WORDS OR WHAT AND SHE ALWAYS HAS A BEAUTIFUL SMILE WHEN SHE TALKS TO ME. BUT IF I DONT SAY ANYTHING TO HER SHE WONT SAY ANYTHING TO ME LIKE IF I SEE HER IN THE HALL SHE WONT SAY HELLO ONLY IF I SAY IT FIRST THEN SHE WILL SMILE AND RESPOND. i feel like a fool becauase she only talks to me if i talk to her. REALLY LIKE HER WHAT SHOULD I DO
2006-10-27 09:23:37 · 6 answers · asked by king of soccer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, if you like this girl a lot, then you should ask her out if your ready to do it so, when your ready to ask her out, dont be shy, and if you really want her to like you, you should compliment her looks more often. If you really want to ask her out right away, get a chance to know her first, so i dont think you should change your look or anything, because thats a way you'll be less attractive to her ! :]
2006-10-27 09:28:23 · answer #1 · answered by CMT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, believe it or not, what you describe is not unusual, especially for the age that you sound like.
However, I've got a suggestion. This girl sounds like she is following what I wish my daughters would do. She believes that the guy should be the 'pursuer' - the one who speaks first.
I'm not talking about being aggressive or a stalker - just say and behave as though you like her if you do really like her. I guess being a friend is hard when you have someone who seems so shy. But being a friend is the best thing for it's own sake. Friendship is it's own reward believe it or not. That means that even if it goes no further than that, it's still a good think to have true friends.
Start there and see how it goes. Remember, no aggression, no stalking. If she says no or becomes interested in others, try to be a friend and be happy with her happy and sad in her sad and she will hopefully give you the same.
Good luck...
2006-10-27 16:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Goodmomma1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try becoming one of her friends or rather a person she came feels comfortable talking to. Find out what she likes and talk to her about that.
2006-10-27 16:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she is shy, and you probably threw her off when you told her she looked pretty, she'll come around once she feels comfortable just keep saying hi
2006-10-27 16:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by BROWNLYN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep talking
2006-10-27 16:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by ChaCha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her more often
2006-10-27 16:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋