If you like her then tell her or ask her out. You have nothing to lose. If she says no then move on.
said by a friend..
but!
what if,
i asked her out,
she said okay
with a sincere look
not that (hmm ill just go along with this guy for the bloody sake of making him happy)look,
shes cool with it.
in the end. shes not going out with me.
its not like shes going to call me or anything.
total silence.
i as a guy, have been waiting to go out with her.
but...in the end.. she forgets. or i dont know..
why is she being mean?
This is a question of me needing to understand why shes acting like this. No desperateness.
whooott??
2006-10-27 09:22:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's probably a case of her being totally inconsiderate and self-centered. But you'll never know until you ask. It could have been a family emergency. Politely confront her and don't leave without an answer. If nothing else, she'll think twice about dissing next time.
2006-10-27 10:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by AileneWright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's being mean... girls generally wait for the guy to make the first move. Call her, give her some time, and go to pick her up. I don't think she can say no then.
If she already agreed, she must be having a rush of emotion (good, most of the time) after you call her for a date.
2006-10-28 17:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by Exrael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she never had any intention of going out with you in the first place.....she probably felt like she had to say yes, and then she figured that she would just not call or answer her phone, and completly avoid you...i think its really crappy, if she didn't wanna go out with you she should have simply said "no thanks" it would have saved you time, and she wouldn't have looked like such a *****......she's not worth it......if she is going to be like that, she wouldn't have made a good GF or even a good friend...you could do sooo much better
2006-10-27 16:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not desperate. It's just that she said that to make you get lost I guess. It's sort of like that for my older brother. The girls ask him out, he says yes, they never show up for the date. It's happened to him so many times, I feel so bad for him.
2006-10-27 16:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww...... Im sorry but i dont think anything is going to happen. that sucks but im sure your a nice and cute enough guy to get another girl. she's not the only girl on this earth. good luck and move on.
2006-10-27 16:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by MICHELLY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't understand what women want. Be a leader first, friend second. You are being way to nice and easy, be direct and confident.
She is not being mean, you are being weak.
2006-10-27 16:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you wanna know y she's being so quiet and not talking to you and forgeting ur date?
she doesn't want to go anymore and doesn't know how to tell you
sorry some girls are bitches like that...hope all goes well and i hope im wronge.
2006-10-27 16:26:44 · answer #7 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋