I have a friend who is 27 yrs old. She's absolutely gorgeous but she's never in her life had a boyfriend. Every guy she talks to or meets and starts flirting with either turns out to be married, in a relationship, or gay. Now she said that she's given up looking because no matter where she goes everyone seems to be taken. She won't go on any online dating websites because she says she won't be able to trust anyone from there. I feel bad for her because even if she waits for the men to come and start a conversation with her; they don't. Now she thinks that there might be something wrong with her and that's why she thinks that she'll never find anyone and she wants to start a family but it doesn't seem to be happening for her. What should she do or what should I do to help?
2006-10-27 09:21:55 · 13 answers · asked by Princess Nisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People SUCK! But it isn't just women that this happens to. I am a SWM, never married, no 'baggage', stable, secure, good job, blah,blah,blah. Even though I am a decent looking guy, because I don't have a GQ body, I might as well be invisible. The other thing is - until I know someone I'm not outgoing. So this is seen as: aloof, unapproachable, etc. (nothing could be further from the truth !!!!) It's sad, because in this day/age your friend sounds like a real 'catch'.
2006-10-27 09:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by barhopper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy her the book "are you the one for me" by Barbara Deangelo?
sounds like she is not very experienced with men.
How well do you really know her? at 27 no experience for a ddg lady is hard to believe. Maybe she has a secret life you don't know about. In any event, if she is interested in meeting men she needs to be available where the types of men she wants to meet are.. Take her country dancing at the Valencia Club in Penryn CA. friday and/or saturday night.
2006-10-27 09:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not to give up. Her lucky guy will be along sometime. She does not need a guy to be complete anyhow. I know that is easy to say. She does not want to appear desperate either and jump at the first thing that shows up. I did that and wanted kids like her and ended up in an unhappy marriage with kids. Not good for anyone. She has time and keep going out with her to places. It will happen.
2006-10-27 09:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot believe that EVERY guy she meets is unavailable or gay! Where is she meeting these guys? She seems to be rather closed minded and somewhat self-centered. Maybe she needs to get some new hobbies or volunteer and meet a variety of people, rather than just focussing in on landing a man. People make their own choices based on what works for them. She might think being the manless victim works for her. Sympathy and concern....
2006-10-27 09:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, she needs to feel good about herself. If she starts to think that something is wrong with her, then that will show through to others. When people look for love, they usually don't find it. So she should stay busy and do things that she enjoys. Love will find her when she is not looking.
2006-10-27 09:30:50 · answer #5 · answered by smooth 321 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her to cool out, don't be looking, Mr. Right will come along, when she least expects him. Their is someone out their for her. Tell her to enjoy this time of her life, go out, take classes. having a man in her life, does not make the world go around! Life still go on, so enjoy every minute of it!
2006-10-27 09:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let her give up!! There are plenty of singles programs associated with area churches. While there are no guarantees, the odds are better there than surfing a bar or web site.
2006-10-27 09:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by Nuk.Nuk.Nuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well She Might Not Get A Boyfriend Unless You Ask AHHHHHHHAAAAAA!!
2006-10-27 09:26:49 · answer #8 · answered by benbsemail 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He ought to objective a distinctive style of shaving gel, a number of them are designed to help soften up the stubble. for sure it extremely is often for the shave itself. over the years i might think of your epidermis will replace into used to the abrasive nature of his chin. A lotion on your epidermis previously making out ought to help additionally. in keeping with possibility he ought to boost a goatee or a beard. long facial hair does tend to be softer.
2016-11-25 23:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by parisien 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have any boyfriends u can just tell them about her, or u yourself go to chatting.com and take her with u and i am sure she will know some one from there
2006-10-27 09:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by nuha k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋