well im 18 & i have a sister who's 13 & our parents dont let us go out on our own ???They trust us but still dont allow us,they say girls in our religion dont hang around out 2 much on their own (im a asian girl) mayb thats why,my parents always come out with me which i dont like its embbarisng,all my frends be with there mates & me..............plzzz some 1 help me!!!
2006-10-27 08:54:35 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you should live by their rules or get out. plus your 13 year old sister shouldnt be going out with out her parents there are sick people out there. they are just trying to protect you guys.
2006-10-27 11:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by jennyjenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its time that u stood on ur own 2 feet then, most girls of 18 are thinking about moving out, getting jobs etc... start doing stuff for urself, whilst respecting ur mum and dads wishes. explain to them that u feel that it is time to start being responsible, and explain what ur going to do, (once you've started to make the plans) dont rush into things and a little respect goes along way.
2006-10-29 16:03:13 · answer #2 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents are scared because at the ages you are both at it usually causes problems like temper tantrums and sex stuff like that. Plus there is a lot of nasty people out there like pervs and bullies so maybe she doesnt want u to get hurt either. i would sit down and talk to ur parents they just seem overprotected of both of u. explain that u do have other friends you could go out with even say you will phone her every hour just to make sure you are ok.
hope this helps xo
2006-10-27 17:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by cookeymonsteruk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your 18 so you dont have to live with them anymore so you can move out
or you can have a disscusion with youre parents saying how you feel and try to work out a compromise
but at the end of the day its your life and dont let people boss you around
2006-10-27 16:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say to them that your not going to be there for the rest of our lifes and you have to start taking control of your life and need your own privercy without them hanging around all the time. Also include that you need to see your friends without my parents being round all the time
2006-10-27 16:48:21 · answer #5 · answered by liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's obligatory by law for parents to look after you(pay your bills) till you're 18. then u're legally independet. but if ur parents are THAT strict, then u have to start earning money and move out of ur parents' house. then u can do anything u want. but i guess with asian families it's different
2006-10-27 16:02:35 · answer #6 · answered by Kanade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you for respecting your parent's wishes, I know it's hard. Have you tried introducing your mates to your parents and maybe including them first in an outing with your parents and then suggesting you "go it alone"?
2006-10-27 17:16:16 · answer #7 · answered by Rahab 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand where you coming from also where your parents are coming from.be for i came 18 i made my parent understand my feelings which really makes them to have trust in me .I guess it all down to trust may be you have don something previously that makes them not to trust you with there heart.what you can do now is try your best and make them to trust you again
2006-10-27 16:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by james o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well do you act like an adult? if you do things that they constantly have to hld ur hand in then they will continue to treat u like a kid. you shld try explaning to ur parents that u feel like your not ur own person and they have to let go someday. wat r they gonna do when u go to college? they sound like thier overprotective also explain to them that u feel that its unfair that u have the same restrictions as ur 13 yr old sister.
2006-10-27 16:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would u go out in the 1st place girl? u trying to smoke up? get crunk? just tell them this. Mom im old enough to take drugs and drink now if i wanna do that i can! im a big girl now dont tell me what to do
then she will let u
2006-10-27 15:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by GodOfWar 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋