2006-10-27 08:53:55 · 13 answers · asked by New York City Chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You date them and then you get your answer.
2006-10-27 08:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I always wonder when I am dating a guy who friends say is "perfect" for me. Do I like him a lot or do I like him because he should be what I want? I think the only way is to spend the time with them, then ask yourself when you are apart if you really enjoyed the time and if you miss them. Missing them would be a good indication that you like them.
2006-10-27 08:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are in love with the "idea" of being in love.
Spend time with them. Take things slow, get to know them, see where it goes. Find out:
What do you have in common?
What do you like about them?
What don't you like about them?
If you can't find anything that you do not like about them, then you will need to remove the rose colored glasses : )
2006-10-27 08:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by kaydee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what your saying is that if your "in love" with them or "Love them"..
Well, when your in love with them, you connect with them in a way that makes you feel good . It is a meeting of minds where both your minds feel like one. It is a very special feeling too, one like no other you've ever experienced.
when you love someone, you like them for their personality or the person that they come across to you that you admire or respect.
Yes, it is possible to be in love and love them . That is even better.
For the most part, loving a person for their personality is not the same as being in love with them on a emotional and feeling level.
2006-10-27 08:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a good question. i think if you really like them then you will try to make things happen but if you just like the idea of them you wont try to peruse things. for me crushes become like an obsession, a part of my everyday life so that's how i know i just like the idea of them rather then having them.
2006-10-27 08:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by experiMENTAL bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is not neccesarily the person you think you like, but if you are ready to make a commitment at the time you are with the person.
I think that the decision is based on how you feel. So be with the person and see if you are brave enough for something to happen.
2006-10-27 09:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Best Answer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. it is really good Q, as if u understand some ones feeling and adopt her or his feelings and thoughts then u are like him or her, if u just share ideas and not thoughts, or u are not on same length of thoughts then u are not liking him or her only u are attracted to short time
2006-10-27 08:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by ashitnarula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well do you think of a future with this person?do you think of him all the time do you go to call him and start thinking you might be calling to much.Do you get nervous and gitty around him do your hands sweat,do you wear certain cloths you think he might like ?If you do all these things then you like him its not just a fantacy.
2006-10-27 09:00:51 · answer #8 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just ask the question of this. Venture into getting to know them, etc, and you'll find out if its meant to be or not.
2006-10-27 08:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by uhd0rableo8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he/she is nice to you and does not worry all about looks than you really like them because ur not worried about what they look like u worry about what is inside
2006-10-27 08:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Imperfection At Its Finest. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋