He said a few have sent him emails and he gave his home number to one of them.I'm heartbroken. Should I care?Should I fight for him and work harder to make it work?
2006-10-27 08:51:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That depends on you.Is it because he is interested in others on the internet and it's making you jelous.You have to make sure you heart is in the right place.Be sure you want him that its not because someone else does.
2006-10-27 08:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by too4barbie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I'm sorry to hear that you got your heart broken like this. What he is doing now is trying to create an online relationship -which is not real intimacy-not real sex- and certainly not real love! Was he doing this while you two were together or is this his new idea of love? You sound like a nice person & it's a shame that he doesn't see that in you . The fact that you still love him even now after what he's done & is still doing speaks well of you as a person- too bad he doesn't appreciate you like he should. But you can't blame yourself for someone elses bad choices & that's what he's doing now is making some bad choices. He could mess around a little bit & end up catching something. I know that it's heartbreaking to love someone & not have them to return that love back.....maybe you should try to talk to him one more time just to see how he feels about you or maybe he's already told you , I don't know....In any regard I would recommend that you look around & at least try to find someone else who can see what a special person you are ...ok? ...wishing the best for you ...bye bye
2006-10-27 09:14:56 · answer #2 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone... trust me he needs help. He does not desrve your love. And he is not worth fighting for. Fight to get over him and work harder on yourself...healing.
I know it is easier said than done, but you will be well off in the long run. Who knows what other dark secrets he has.
You do not want a perveted husband and father to your children.
Stay encouraged.
2006-10-27 08:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by cantstandrudeness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No~ If he is online looking for CYBERSEX he obviously has issues..>Girl you can do better! Also- if your FIANCEE was doing this what makes you think your HUSBAND wont? A ring doesn't change a relationship just the label!
2006-10-27 08:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by Alesha W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why waste your time for a guy who is more than likely going to be a player and a cheating husband once he ever does marry.
Why wouldn't you want to pass on that?
It's a good thing you broke up. No reason to carry on with a jerk!
2006-10-27 08:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out his chat room name and which rooms he visits
make a id that he doesnt know
approach him like a strange girl interesed in him
date him online agin without him knowing
u might not get him in the end but atleast u know he sint with any one else
maybe he falls in love all over again
2006-10-27 08:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if the two of you have broken up, then his feelings are obviously not as strong for you as they used to be. He is moving on, and you're going to have to understand that. I know you don't like this answer, but this is really the way I interpereted this.
2006-10-27 08:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up. It's over. He's looking for a new thrill. Tell his friend to mind his own busines.
Working hard to win this jerk won't be winning any prize. Move on.
2006-10-27 08:54:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If he wants to go with other women obviously, you should repect that. Or you can go with the childish thing and date other men just to make him jealous and want you back, then you could live happily ever after the end!!!
2006-10-27 08:56:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was he doing this when you were togetther? If yes, then he wasn't ready to settle down. If the answer is no, he might just be looking for action, you did break up remember?
2006-10-27 08:59:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋