i have a boyfriend...and we've only been goin out for a while......and i feel weird.....i see another guy that i've liked for a long time...and i still like him.....is this normal for me to feel like this??? do i really have feelings for my boyfriend??? have u ever felt like this???
2006-10-27 08:42:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am married, I love my husband very much and would never do anything with anyone else, BUT I still have some small feelings for an ex of mine. It is no big deal really.
2006-10-27 08:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes have you heard the saying "Don't Put All Your Eggs In One Basket"? Well that is what your supposed to do, even though you have a boyfriend it is healthy and good to keep your other friend just in case your current bf is a stupid guy if he is which I think he will be, the heartbreak won't be so bad, may not be bad at all because you will still have your other friend, now if you guys been together more than 6 month it might be time to evaluate your relationship, and if he's worth it, cut the other guy off he'll just create more problems. Good Luck!
2006-10-27 15:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you invented loving two people at the same time. I did that for a long time. Same old pal and different boyfriends. Once I met the one I married, I kicked my pal to the curb. We still talk on the phone just to keep in touch, but no touching! You will know when to stop. I hope this helps.
2006-10-27 15:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy with the guy you are with now you should break up cause you are only hurting him if you are not fully in the relationship with him. you should never stay with a guy you really don't feel that way for your just waisting each others time. if you like the other guy and if you know if he likes you i would suggest hanging out with him as friends before you start dating. since you would have just gotten out of a relationship.
2006-10-27 15:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're playing the "what if" game in your mind. Yep, I've done it. I'll start thinking "what if I leave my bf for him?" and "what if I really hit it off with this other guy?" and "what if my bf is not my soulmate and this other guy is and I'm missing my opportunity?" Hate to tell you this, but I've given in to my "what if" frame of mind, dumped my bf, went for the other guy, and things didn't work out too great. And then I start again, "what if I didn't leave my bf for this guy?" My advice, ignore the other guy and live in the moment with your bf. It's like that saying "the grass looks greener on the other side". But, is it really?
2006-10-27 15:54:25 · answer #5 · answered by ☆skyblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think it's normal. even when we end relationships our hearts and minds are not completely caught up with us. So, I feel this way about my ex- I think about the times he was special to me. I control my thinking but I cannot always control my feelings so, I just keep my eye on the prize and remember what he was is just that WAS. move on if you left him he had to do something to loose you.
2006-10-27 15:53:26 · answer #6 · answered by mita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u still have feelings for the guy that u liked n when u n your boyfriend fight you tend to think about the guy that u use to like...but you need to make up ur mind about who u want to be with before its too late... the longer u gona be with this guy the harder is gona take you to forget him n move on... but if u want to be with the one you are with right now then u have to forget about the past n think about the future with your man....u just have to give it some time...n make up ur mind wat u want to do....n who u want to be with
2006-10-27 15:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by !HiS GUrL! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u mean like two people at the same time? yes! it gets real confusing real quick.
2006-10-27 15:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by sexymama06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probaly not ready to be with just one guy. give yourself options if you still like this other guy
2006-10-27 15:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by slickgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋