...and when the guy finally grows up and gets his $hit together, they start a serious relationship and eventually get married... Do any of you know someone like this??? Cause my cousin waited for her now husband for YEARS not dating anyone else while he was off doing whatever until he came back. Does anyone else find this odd? I mean...how often could this possibly happen?
2006-10-27 08:29:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't say that she didn't do anything at all...she just didn't date around. She actually became more focused on her career and is really successful in what she does...but the point was that she was sitting there WAITING.
2006-10-27 08:36:41 · update #1
I don't find it odd, if you love someone you will wait for them. Why go out with other people if you know you love the other person? I really don't see whats wrong with it at all.
2006-10-27 08:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Laurel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth I'm 18 and the guy I'm with I've been waiting for him since i was 11 and now we are getting married in January on my birthday Hes 21 and very nice and some girls will wait for ever for the guys they love that's what i did its not strange some people do strange things for the person they love
2006-10-27 15:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm in that same situation.. I waited for 7yrs but still had my fun and dated other people as he did. We started when we were 20 and now 7yrs later we have decided to commit to one another. I'm glad i waited because is better to know what your getting yourself into in the long run. Unlike people that date for 1-2 yrs they get married. Not that is bad but is better to make sure that's the person for you and not change your mind later and get divorced. We both grew up and are now ready to take the next step.
Grant it i didn't want to wait but now that i'm older if things would have started earlier we would not be were we are now. Is better to wait till your ready and do it right then to just go with the flow and see what happens.
2006-10-27 15:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's lazy. A person who 'waits" doesn't need to make the effort to get a life or move on or anything, so they hide behind this warped idea of being "faithful". It's just a cop-out to avoid taking responsibility for their own life.
Imagine what she could have accomplished on her own if she wasn't "waiting" for another person. Nah-- too much trouble. Easier to sit there and do nothing.
2006-10-27 15:33:31 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My theory is if there off having fun because it isn't the right "time" for that type of relationshop then I am going to be off having fun as well..
2006-10-27 15:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by Leah * 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As often as someone finds their true love and soulmate and makes this decision early.
2006-10-27 15:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea its veryyy oddd....i mean yeh he is married to her but wat if he wants to go messs around again when ur cousin n her hubby get in a fight..if he did it beofre he could do it again......n again..cuz some guys never change....he will take advantage of that the fact your cousin took him back in her life...so hes going to think o she took me back last time...if i do it again she int gotta kno...she wont find out...i'll just do it once...n then agagin...n then again...n again....then hes going to stop loving your cousin n find someone better....sometimes guys just get tired of seen the same gurl over n over again...sometimes they just want someone new they could play around with....
2006-10-27 15:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by !HiS GUrL! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lovesick stupidity!
2006-10-27 15:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by gibbyguys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... i know that if i loved some one, and they weren't willing to be in a relationship with me, i'd be hurt, and i would move on...
2006-10-27 15:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing to understand that is just how some girls are.
2006-10-27 15:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋