i met this girl a few month and 1/2 or so ago, and we both are really into each other. we really want to go out with each other, but she has a boyfriend, which i only found out about 2 weeks ago. everyone we know is pressuring her to leave him for me, all our friends and such, but she wont. i cant tell if its her morals that keep her from doing it, or if she is scared to leave him. the dude doesnt strike me as an abuser, but then again im sure scott peterson seemed nice enough in the beginning so yeah....what do i do?
2006-10-27 08:27:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she tells me all the time she wishes we could go out and that she hates the fact that she has a boyfriend.
2006-10-27 08:57:20 · update #1
let her be. and set yourself free.
2006-10-27 08:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave her alone, there are two things that can happen here, 1 she might not want to leave him because maybe........ she LOVES him! The other thing is, OK so she leaves him, then she'll probably run across another guy just like you and be just as gullible and then she may leave you too.
Tip: Try getting a girl that doesn't belong to anyone, it's better that way! But Good Luck I hope it works out!
2006-10-27 08:34:50 · answer #2 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find out who she really loves first. maybe she feels guilty leaving him, maybe she likes you both. Why did she hide the fact that she had a b/f? Something is not right and you need to be told the truth. The only way to do that is have a serious talk with her
2006-10-27 08:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends enjoy talking up a romance.
that doesn't mean that one exists.
there seems to be a problem with honesty if you only found out two weeks ago.
she won't leave him because you were just a harmless fool who got carried away in your own thoughts.
better if you look elsewhere.
2006-10-27 08:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her to make her own decision. It's that simple. Continue being a friend and don't limit your options in the meantime. Continue dating other women. There's no guarantee she'll ever leave him.
2006-10-27 08:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put yourself in his shoes. She is making a fool out of him by going back and forth. Is this the kind of person you really want? Leave them alone and when she is free then you can persue her.
2006-10-27 08:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ball is in her court. She has to decide who she wants, and do not go with her any more until, she makes up her mind. because someone could get hurt. Ask her what is she going to do? say I am here for you, but you have to make up your mind, if you want your boyfriend or me? No one wants to be second best!
2006-10-27 08:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has a bf than u should really leave her alone. maybe sh edoesn't want to lie ave him for u cause sh ereallly does like him. just let time tell what will happen.
2006-10-27 08:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by hellodivasexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I u really like her, then wait, she'll be worth it if you do.
2006-10-27 08:34:28 · answer #9 · answered by bunnies6499 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait
2006-10-27 08:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋