He tells me he loves me and all that pitty stuff.But I leave my house to go somewhere and I come back and he haves another girl there.He says that she is just a friend and she says they are friends but she wants to be more.He told me that he was not ready to be with any one yet but I am that first girl on his list when he is ready to have a girl.I don't think it is that I think he fears commitment.He says he have strong feeling for me but I just don't know anymore.
2006-10-27 08:27:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's playing you for a fool. Find someone else.
2006-10-27 08:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by lee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear, there is a difference between loving someone and being in love.. I believe that you both may love each other and care for one another but you are not in love with each other or he wouldnt' do that to you.. Second of all I know of alot of males whom yes are very indeed afraid of committment they want that freedom and variety as I think it makes them feel more manly although it is sad that way. Also this would have been better to answer had you let us know your age, but my dear if you are anything under the age of 20 I wouldn't worry about it to much and move on to bigger and better things. There are way to many fish in the sea as they say for you to settle for something that doesn't make you happy.. And my dear if he has another female over once you leave, then something is up.. That is just how it is, no other way around it.. especially if he doesn't have this person over if you are around.. So drop him, and move on hun.. You deserve better.
2006-10-27 08:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by cheryl m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow it would break my heart if my boyfriend was saying that to other girls faces, he used to talk about how hot girls were all the time and its a long story but I became depressed and ended up self harming for some time. When I finally told him how I felt and told him how painful it was he was shocked and it still haunts him, so really just tell him and if he loves you and cares he WILL make the effort to change his ways. You should be the girl he is dreaming of, not anyone else
2016-03-28 09:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a Dic! Leave him alone, and from what I read I see that you are already callin him your boyfriend and you like him alot, i'd end it before your feelings get real serious, he doesn't have any respect for you even if you two are just friends, he shouldn't be inviting other girls over when he knows that you will be coming through. Good Luck I hope you do the right thing.
2006-10-27 08:41:01 · answer #4 · answered by lildemon78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. Why didn't he invite the girl over while you were there? Obviously he wanted to be alone with her. Talk to him, get it out in the open.. If you don't know, ask.. That's the only way you'll find out the truth....Remember, tell him that the truth is much more fun.. If he did cheat on you, tell him to be honest. It'll make you feel like crud... but you'll feel better knowing... Also, when mine cheated on me, I just turned up the best song in the world and sang it at the top of my lungs... Carrie Underwood : Before He Cheats..... Check it out, If he cheated, you'll like it, but don't, like, do what she did, ok? Lol.... Good luck.... I hope you get it figured out..
2006-10-27 08:36:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..you are both young and he is obviously playing the field..haven't u heard? men are hunters...the hunting goes on until they are ready to settle down for the one that's right for them. what i would do is..just enjoy the time u have with him and don't think of the future...another thing..he will run if u nag him or even let him know that it bothers u. everyone need freedom, specially in a realtionship..u have to trust him...let him hang out with his friends that are girls and if there is anything u need to find out...about him you will find out in time then you will know it was meant to be.
don't be needy and insecure and don't show him u are bothered by it..be cool....besides guys like this don't like to be smothered...they respect women who will stop pressuring them..the minute u stop acting the way u are..trust me that's what men are attracted to. not a woman who is insecure and needy and worried about him with other girls..why would u want to bother with that type of guy? really?
now just be cool and see what happens...
2006-10-27 08:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is bull shitting you. You both must be very young. I'm going through this same thing with my daughter and I just can't understand how she can be so naive. I am sure that there is a person out there for you that you wouldn't have to worry about in that way. Good Luck
2006-10-27 08:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by Maggie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lots of guys flirt, because it boosts our egos. However, if it bothers you, you should tell him. Just make sure not to be accusing, but rather try and make him understand how you feel about it. Most people don't even realize that they are flirting when they do it.
2006-10-27 08:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by pdkflyguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks that you are waiting for him and he's gonna keep you waiting cuz he knows he can you need to tell him I'm tired of you just playin little kid games and tell him if you don't want me know so you could play with your little hoes Na I'm not going to wait for you if you do that but my email is dog_blue_reno@yahoo.com if you want to talk OK
2006-10-27 08:42:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow you deserve so much better. why does he have other girls over if hes not interested in them? he sounds like a player girl you really cant say too much because you arent "together" like a couple. seems like hes just telling you want he thinks you want to hear. i wouldnt buy that girl.
2006-10-27 08:38:36 · answer #10 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a booty call honey! Open your eyes. Move on unless you feel like you can wait until hes done being with he rest!
2006-10-27 09:22:14 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋