My bf and i have been together about 7 months, im 20 and hes 21, i currently live with him now and he's moving from New York to Arizona in a month or two to go to school. Now i have a good job here and i need to pay bills and start school myself, if he asks me should i just pick up and move with him, or stay and trust him to go without me. Im so torn.
2006-10-27 08:17:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WELL, YOU SHOULD ASK HIM WHAT HE WOULD LIKE FOR YOU TO DO INSTEAD OF WAITING ON HIM TO ASK, THAT WAY YOU CAN FIND A SCHOOL WHERE HE IS GOING AND A JOB AHEAD OF TIME--IF HE WANTS YOU TO GO WITH HIM. IF NOT, YOU JUST HAVE TO BE STRONG AND TRUST IN HIM.
2006-10-27 08:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by kimandkaitlyn2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't move unless there's a commitment between the both of you. Moving in with someone and married to someone is two different things. If your not ready for marriage then take some time for yourself and go to school. You are only 20 don't rush intto a commitment as big as this one. I'm going on 27 & my bf 28. We recently decided to moving in together and he lives about 2hrs from me. I'm older and have had my fun but yet is a big big commitment. Don't rush, and make sure is what you true want in your heart.
2006-10-27 08:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by dodgergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could get a job and go to school in Arizona. If he reallly wants you to go with him, I'd say go for it. It could be an adventure. If it doesn't work out, you can always move back to New York.
2006-10-27 08:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by Dasher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7 months? thats kinda crazy, but that is the completely opposite side of the US. it would be more expensive to try and keep the relationship going from that far away.
arizona is pretty hot and boring. i would stay in NY if you asked me.... but what would be even better is if you went to Texas!!
2006-10-27 08:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Hugh Jass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having any doubts at all, then stay where you are. You can always wait a semester before moving. That would give you time alone to make up your mind.
2006-10-27 08:20:55 · answer #5 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont depend on a man to make u happy. If u are happy where u are stay. If u cant trust him then u dont need to be together
2006-10-27 08:20:43 · answer #6 · answered by slickgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arizona? are you crazy? Stay here
2006-10-27 08:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay and trust him.. seperation is sometimes a good thing
2006-10-27 08:22:17 · answer #8 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think its the right choice then do it but if not you should wait ight
2006-10-27 08:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way if he's serious you will get married. if you think marriage is to soon, then maybe moving to another state is too!!!
2006-10-27 08:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋