Me and my ex havent seen each other in about 3 years we orignally broked up because her friends was jelous and her dad was gay and he wanted me eventhough i am not gay he always told me things about his daughter that she is cheating on me and this caused problems and he tells her that me and him slept together for money which is not true every year i send her a birthday card in november with a 50 dollars money order but i never recieve a response back i always send it too her address where she used too stay with her dad so i think her dad is cashing the money orders so last year i sent a letter warning him if he is cashing the money orders i will press charges on him he told me too get a life and move on grow up my daughter hates you she is married in new york with 2 kids and another on the way he talked too me really bad but it been a almost a year and now i got myself together and got my own place and i wanna get back with her how should i do it ? and where should i look
2006-10-27 08:10:27 · 10 answers · asked by bigpipeinjersey 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is your EX. You send her money and she doesnt even say thank you. She considers you her EX. She is not responding. Even if the money is not being given to her, do not send anymore. Its although very sweet, it is sad that you still do that.
No matter what a cad her father is, she has not contacted you in 3 years, maybe its time you forget about it and move on.
If you still want to find her, try an internet search. If what her father says is true about her married and 2 kids, stay away.
Then again, she knows where she could find you and she hasnt has she? Save yourself the money and find a nice girl to start dating, its a better ''investment''.
2006-10-27 08:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by chiara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, If she's married with two kids, you need to leave her alone! You said you started over, can't you find a new love too? Her dad seems a little messed up in the head, so maybe you should get with someone else. I'm not trying to hurt you in anyway! I just think you need to get over her and move on with your life. And quit sending the money if you know that her dad is getting it!! GOOD Luck!
2006-10-27 15:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on little brother. Turn the page!
2006-10-27 15:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like u really care for her and have some money to spend. Find some1 like any investagater to help u.
2006-10-27 15:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really need all this drama in your life? Think fondly about her on her birthday and move on.
2006-10-27 15:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask jerry springer when you're on the show
2006-10-27 15:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by luvbabysky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much drama get your self a new life
2006-10-27 15:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this time...send her an e-greeting card to her personal e-mail address....check if she replies...
2006-10-27 15:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking this is over.
2006-10-27 15:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by no_wait_hes_spartacus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good god! Move on, man! Can you say, "STALKER"!!
2006-10-27 15:19:36 · answer #10 · answered by Cool-K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋