My bf and i have been together about 7 months. He's moving from New York to Arizona in a month or two to go to school. Now i have a good job here and i need to pay bills and go to school myself, if he asks me should i just pick up and move with him, or stay and trust him to go without me. Im so torn.
2006-10-27 08:08:49 · 11 answers · asked by Casey0912 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, don't go. Particularly because you have a good job already. What's waiting for you in Arizona besides him and hot weather? You need to do what's best for you (and if you stay with him in the long run, it's better for both of you), which is going to school yourself and working.
2006-10-27 08:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living together without a commitment of marriage is not the answer. Then what? Usually the girl gets pregnant and a child is brought into the mess. Honor yourself, be true to yourself. Finish school, start your career but hold out for marriage. If he can live with you, he can marry you. See yourself as valuable, not cheap for someone to use.
2006-10-27 08:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez, u have me torn too. My head is telling me u should stay, but my heart is telling me u should go.
Haha, just kidding. It shouldnt be that hard to make a choice, ive been in ur shoes before. Is this guy a potential groom, if marriage is in ur plans, does he fit into ur future, how badly would the move effect ur plans. If its all worth it, then go, but somethign tells me ur better off staying where u are
2006-10-27 08:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you may feel torn, and hurt, but trust is a very important things in an relationship, and anywayz, you've got a good job, and you need to take care of your bills, so just stay, and try to put forth, trust. Holla!!!!!!!!!1
2006-10-27 08:14:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh even though you only been with your boyfriend for 7 months I will not advise you just to pick up and go if he asks you. I wouldn't give up nothing for a man unless my life is secure there. if the long distance relationship doesn't work there are more males around that might even be better
2006-10-27 08:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by runawayocean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldn't because moving in with the opposite sex without marriage is bad, because it could lead to other issues.
2006-10-27 08:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by A Yahoo! user 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he wants to be with you and is in love with you then he will marry you.Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free.
2006-10-27 08:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by By the way 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How important is school to you? DO you trust him? All this count
2006-10-27 08:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by Trinity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think you should go he is asking you to be irresponsible, and that is not a good sign
2006-10-27 08:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the real question is how much do you love is it so much that you would put him first or is it that you could but yourself first you choose
2006-10-27 08:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋