ok i have no idea what to do. me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now. andit seems like all he wants to do is get in my pants. i mean he gets mad at me over the littlest things. like i was sick the other day and i couldnt come over. so he gto pissed what should i do?
ashley c>
2006-10-27 08:05:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wel ash i don't know i would but that's me and you know what i think about guys like that and i don't like those kind of guys.
2006-10-27 08:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by megan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say talk to him first let him know how you feel and see if he tells you the truth, but if he continues being too possesive you will just end up hating him in the long run. He should of understood why you couldn't come over and asked if there was anything he could do to make you feel better. Take it from me me and my boyfriend just split after 3 years because I was way too possesive it doesn't work, but don't automatically give up try and talk and see what happens.
2006-10-27 08:11:17 · answer #2 · answered by stephanieblue43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everybody have fights with boyfriends, but if u fight all the time and about stupid things, and he always only interesting to have sex with u then u should try to find out if he really loves u or not. And u probably have to talk to him about that and tell him that it's bothering u. Don't let him do only what he wants if u don't like something say it. Your guy shouldn't only be interesting in sex. So watch out!!!
2006-10-27 08:34:08 · answer #3 · answered by Martini5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he treats you like that because you always do what he wants. You need to stop and not care what he thinks about that. Only then he will have some respect for you, 'casue now he doesn't. Nexttime tell him, I can't come 'cause I'm sick or i'm going out with my friends if you don't like it than too bad! He can't see that your life revolves around him 'cause trust me, he will get bored with you are leave you. Good luck
2006-10-27 08:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before calling it quits, sit down and have a serious talk with him. no other people, no distractions. first tell him how you feel about the fact that it seems like all he ever wants to do is have sex, tell him how it hurts your feelings. discuss with him all the things that hurt you - maybe he doesn't realize he's being such a jerk? be as gentle and nonconfrontational as possible. after all is said and done, and he is still treating you like crap or like a sex object, it is time to call it quits because you deserve MUCH better than that! good luck.
2006-10-27 08:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by iittghy? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He does not want you he wants what is between your legs. Put him to the test. Don't give him none for a few days and see how he acts. Tell him you want to see how y'all get along without sex. Go out with him, get some drinks do something so you are not alone with him.
2006-10-27 08:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Clints_wench 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him!!! It's your body and soul, you shouldn't have to deal with that. Seems that's all he want you for. And if he's getting mad over littlest things, that's lame. He doesn't deserve you... just follow your heart.
2006-10-27 08:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by nativehoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn he's kind of going nuts... you don't need that.. but hey i've been there before.. i had this boyfriend who said that he loved me so much and he would ask me if we were going to do it.. but i'm a smart women i didn't give in... he would have his times where he would get his temper at me and get mad at me... and maybe it's because the lack of sex lol! that's what i think and they get fustrated... the question you have to ask yourself is all this worth it? do you really think you could resolve this problem by talking to him? well you should know what to do... but communication is the best response... and if that doesn't work then it's not worth it... don't waste your time on him... and if i was you in this case... i would just try at least to work it out.. give it a shot... but if it doesn't work tell him bye...
2006-10-27 08:14:04 · answer #8 · answered by maria U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you EVER have to go to him? If he likes you, he should have been over there taking care of you while you were sick. Tell him you don't ever want to see his sorry butt again and go find yourself a real man.
Print all these answers out and give them to him while you say Goodbye.
2006-10-27 08:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound too good to me. The foundation of a good relationship is friendship. This should be someone who cares about you, wants to make you feel better when you are down, etc. I say leave him and find someone more worthy of you. Good luck.
2006-10-27 08:09:40 · answer #10 · answered by danl747 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said he is a young bot interested in one thing his wild oats. Tell him to give some other girl a shot and move on.
Better try this one tell him "your services are no longer needed"
2006-10-27 08:10:08 · answer #11 · answered by Jazz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋