Ok I have a really sweet boyfriend but he's crazy jealous of EVERYONE. And It's not my fault but I have mostly guy friends, it's not that I'm a tomboy or anything, I just grew up with brothers and get along with guys better. How can I explain to him they are just friends?
2006-10-27 07:23:17 · 11 answers · asked by Sasa<3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't. He is seriously afraid of losing you and will be jealous as long as he is so insecure. Give him time, if you can, to see that you are with him and only him that the other guys are not competition.
2006-10-27 07:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by William J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had this problem too- guys are soooo much easier to get along with and talk to. Girls tend to be too petty on the little things... we all know we're guilty of it... myself definately included.
If your boyfriend is jealous, although one could say that's HIS problem and he should deal with it and get over it, you need to talk to him about it.
My boyfriend now understands that although almost all my friends are male, he's the only one that is going to be number one in my life.
He may be jealous of the attention you pay to them- does he think there is anything more than platonic about your friendships with them? Is there?
Talk to your boyfriend, and explain the situation- try to do it so that he understands.
If he is still jealous to the point where he is overbearing, that could be a warning sign. Some of the guys I've dated have been the overjealous protective type, and it turned out that they were the ones that were cheating and turned the guilt onto me, making me think that I was wrong. Alternatively, he may have control or anger issues.
Settle this now, before you progress the relationship. Make sure he really is worth it. Would you be able to give up your friends for him? Do you want to?
Ultimately that's the choice I can see you making- leaning to which way, I don't know.
Good luck- make sure you talk to him!
2006-10-27 07:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by kiwi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you act like "just friends" around them? He might be feeling insecure from your unconcious flirting, hugging, and any over friendliness. If you respect your boyfriend, you need to draw a clear line and make sure that no misunderstanding can occur. This is not about being "just one of the guys" anymore.
2006-10-27 07:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jason D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely, possibly once you've requested him and he received't answer, possibly because it really is something he's dealing with on my own did you comprehend of a own disaster he might want to be having? (abode, artwork, acquaintances)?? i does not push, in basic terms enable or not that is. men do not continually show emotions and thoughts like us. notwithstanding in case you've been quite close, he might want to easily be having a puzzling time on the different hand, possibly he's battling desirous to be out of a realtionship - in all likelihood not you - yet him and his subject matters being apprehensive is organic; save talking to acquaintances and get help from others. do not push him too puzzling, yet help him, notwithstanding if the best result isn't a relationship yet a friendship good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2016-12-05 07:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if he gets to know these friends of yours better and sees that they are just friends, he will be more comfortable about it. Bring him with you when you see these friends for the time being.
2006-10-27 07:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey gurl wats up i now you may be thinking he is jealous which he probably is all guys are jealous when there girls are talking to guy friends that have beeen friends forever. Believe me i know! Just talk to him and promise him that they are just friends!!! hope this helps
2006-10-27 07:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Becuz I Luv You!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him. that's all you can do is try to explain to him. And tell him to calm down that his the only guy for you.
2006-10-27 07:28:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are he has a low self of steam you wont ever be able to explain it to him. but you might try to build his ego up a little. it might work. good luck
2006-10-27 07:29:57 · answer #8 · answered by James C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't need to, this could be a early sign that he is possessive and abusive.
2006-10-27 07:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to deal with his insecurities. He needs counseling.
2006-10-27 07:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋