ok this morning my boyfriend and myself were in the car he was bringing me to work and his phone rings we didnt pick it up so i see that there was a voice message and when i listened it was his ex- girlfriend that left a message now all she said was that she was calling to see what was up and what was he doing and to call her back..... so it got me really mad and really im still upset about it cause i think that while im at work she is always calling him..... what should i do??
2006-10-27 07:13:03 · 14 answers · asked by SHORTY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Confront him and ask what type of relationship he has with her...and if you feel like you need to leave based on the information, then that is your opportunity!
2006-10-27 07:15:23 · answer #1 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know that personally I would not put up with that! In my opinion if you are with someone they should have no communication with an ex. I mean that is someone that they used to be intimate with and attracted to....no no. Instead of flipping out and causing a big scene (like I would do) simply ask him how he would feel if the tables were turned and also don't forget to mention to him how much it hurts and makes you uncomfortable. Hope this helps.
2006-10-27 14:18:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is unacceptable. She is calling because she knows she can...in other words, he has talked with her on other occasions while you guys were dating.
I see no reason an ex-girlfriend should be calling your man, other than shenanigans.
It's not as if they share a child or something, and they need to discuss parenting issues.
2006-10-27 14:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by *nevermind* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing just yet. Maybe it was out of the blue that she called. I would worry if he does call her back, but until he does that, don't worry.
2006-10-27 14:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump this bum and move on he has properly been doing this awhile you deserve better than a cheat
2006-10-27 14:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says he has to go out for a dumb reason in the middle of the night put a tape recorder under his seat.it will work
2006-10-27 14:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by SINISTER MEMPHISTO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call her and see what the hell she wants
2006-10-27 14:16:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
check his phone bill and see if they talk all the time
2006-10-27 14:16:33 · answer #8 · answered by ♫♥♪♬♥♪Try Me♫♥♪♫♥♪♬ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him. communication is the key to a relationship! good luck!
2006-10-27 14:17:31 · answer #9 · answered by gracin_angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and get a LIFE.
2006-10-27 14:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋