Im not sorry for anything ive done but i think i have made the biggest mistake of my life. I am 4 months pregnant with my lover and he just had a baby. i had the opportunity to get an abortion but i just couldnt do it. I left him alone. Now he wants me back. It seems to me that he wants to do right. on the real he jumps through hoops to try to be with me but i cant share my man with no other female. I thought that if I still messed with him then next it will be drama with her and God knows i dont need no extra problems. I want my man and I want him in our childs life but should i be cautious of those facts and the could be. Or should i give him the benefit of the doubt and try it first.
2006-10-27 06:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
He is very sweet and take cares of all responsibilities. He is older than me also. I thought i wasnt being understanding of the fact that his other child is a newborn. i wish i could explain the situation better. He's my boo! Im down 4 that man on everything.
2006-10-27 06:57:22 · update #1
Plus he didnt cheat on her with me. Lil mama got pregnant outside a relationship. I got more than sex with him. Im his girl his down chick his let me say the one he likes and wants more with. He does things for me he and i would never imagine. I aint gon lie he takes good care of me. He makes sure i dont need or want from anything even before this pregnancy.
2006-10-27 07:02:29 · update #2
He claims my child 100%. Honey, I dont be on the f*** around at all. He know whats up. He is not married. They just had sex thats all the chemistry both of them had. THINK AS IF IT WERE U IN ThE SITUATION.
2006-10-27 07:07:12 · update #3
What a pity for the children. You people are going to be their greatest example. How very very sad.. for your kids will grow up and be just like you.
This is the most awful story- You people know sex is for marriage right?
When will you realize the grave mistake you have made? adopt your kids out . please!!
2006-10-28 00:56:29 · answer #1 · answered by SunValleyLife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holy ****,this is messed up. You should have been with your children instead of partying. First of all you shouldn't have been having sex at 13, but if you got pregnant you should learn from your mistakes. The second time around it "wasn't your fault", but maybe you should have considered adoption. The third time you admit you didn't use protection, and you were drunk (which is wrong for a 15 year-old to be drunk). You need to learn a lesson by now. I'm a teen mother (I had my son at 17), so I'm not being unfair. I know what it's like to be a teen mom. Which is why I can tell you this: Get your a** to school!! For your children! If you don't have a job, how can you support them? You can't live with your parents for all your life. You need to take up some MAJOR responsibility. And I know you probably love your kids very much, but you really, REALLY need to think about giving this third child up for adoption. You can't support 3 kids at 15. I'm sorry, but it's true. I can barely support one kid and I'm almost 18! You are just not emotionally or physically able to take care of a third child. Please contact Planned Parenthood and get information on adoption clinics. I hope you learn a good lesson from this. Use more than one birth control-- the Pill, condoms, an implant, hell use everything you can to prevent from having another baby. Or maybe stop having sex for a while.
2016-05-22 01:04:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just said upfront....that you want him in your and your child's life, but you don't want any drama (by the way, he'll be able to have a part in his kid's life regardless)...let him make the decision and do the work. If he's really willing to jump through hoops as you say, you might find yourself a very happy woman. Good Luck to you and I'm proud of you for not aborting your baby -- you'll never even be able to imagine you could consider it when you're holding your baby in your arms.
2006-10-27 06:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ducky S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stupid. Just leave him alone, forget him! If he really wanted to be with you and if he really loved you then he wouldn't have had you "on the side". It's as simple as that. I know you will do what you want to do regardless of what I say, but since you asked I'm telling you that you deserve more than he can give you. Just stay away from him and you will find a man that loves you and only you. Don't sell you and your child short, no since in that, there's alot of men out there that I'm sure would love to have a chance to be with you and your soon to be baby. You don't/shouldn't have to be in the middle of all that drama. And just for the record he sounds like an ***! And no matter if you love him or not REMEMBER that if he really loved you he would just be with you, and he wouldnt have to lie to anyone about it.
2006-10-27 07:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by cuteness 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me first say that if you do take him back..you will ALWAYS have the other woman in both of your lives! It's not only his baby with the other woman...but it's your childs sibling as well! I know it hurts to really swallow things like that sometimes..but you did lay down with him..so now you have to deal with the outcomes..either way he's still gonna be in the baby's life..he is the daddy! GOOD LUCK !!
2006-10-27 06:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by mommyof372802 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing good can come about with you messing with a married man. He has no obligation to you, even though he says he will be there.
It's evident, he already left you for his wife to have a baby. If he leaves his wife, then you have a chance, but whose to say he won't cheat on you, like he did on his wife with you?
2006-10-27 06:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by stocks4allseasons 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself " i want a man for myself and don't want to share" whats to say he is telling the mother of that other child. if he cheated on her with you who is to say he will cheat with a new baby momma? He can still care for your child and be part of your child life without you delaing with him. What does your heart tell you?
2006-10-27 06:56:50 · answer #7 · answered by sylviachencho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is not with the first babys mama and never was then whats the problem?? if your telling the truth then i don't see why you guys aren't together. whatever happens between you guys don't ever keep him away from his other child thats not cool, and its not the babys fault....
2006-10-27 08:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by juicy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who are you, a Britney Spears wanna-be?!
2006-10-27 06:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he is a two-timer, what makes you think he will change for you?
2006-10-27 07:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by KathyS 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋