i'm a single male and i'm nice, polite do everything that a man did back in the day, hold the door for a women, give up my seat so she can sit Etc, all thru high school till now, WHY DO FEMALES GO FOR THE GUY THAT WILL CHEAT ON THEM, ABUSE THEM, AND LEAVE THEM OUNCE THE HAVE CHILDREN?
2006-10-27 06:36:06 · 18 answers · asked by James H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you wondering about why you're single?
Your crappy attitude and generalizations are blatantly obvious.
2006-10-27 06:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tell you. You and all the rest of the good guys in the world would like to know the answer to this. We as women, we like a challenge sometimes. We want a man to be strong and stand his ground as a man but not try to control us or be a father figure. We want a man who shows emotions and who is sensitive without being a punk. We want a man who is romantic. I found a man who is old fashion and still has values (not like the men now days!!). I went through the trifflin men that cheated and had kids and left them and the abuse and had enough, I now have a wonderful man who loves my kids, would never even fathom the idea of abusing me, and cheat, yea right, his whole world revolves around me!! Women just have to get enough of the abuse before they realize they want, need and deserve the good one.
2006-10-27 06:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by ladystarrchild107 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you fun?? That is pretty damn important. You can be the nicest and politest guy in the world, but if you're not any fun, then no one will want to hang out with you. Now, if I've got a choice between a fun guy who is polite and a fun guy who is an asshole, I'll take the nice guy everytime. But if I have a choice between being treated like royalty while I'm bored out of my mind and having a good time with someone who is rude... um, well, then I'll keep looking. ;)
2006-10-27 06:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by pamgissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple. Some of us girls are just stupid. You sound like a real catch. But until you meet the right girl you will always come in contact with all the girls who say.....YOU are too nice, they see you as just a friend...or worse like a brother. Hang in there. When the smart girl comes around and knows how to appreciate you then you will just have to NOT let her go
2006-10-27 06:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't all females, but it is quite a few. I always had a thing for the bad boys. but in the end, I think we want a guy who puts on the bad boy, you can't control me front, but is the sweet honest man underneath. Let's just say we are complicated.
2006-10-27 06:39:51 · answer #5 · answered by heather d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are things that guy's usually don't come right out and tell you before they ask you out. Those are things that you usually find out after the fact if you know what I mean. The correct question to ask would be why do they stay with them?
2006-10-27 06:39:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like myself they don't know a good man when they see it. I guess they have to get dogged out 1st before they appreciate a good man. Don't change cause good things will come your way.
2006-10-27 06:39:56 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like the nice guy type
2006-10-30 04:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Preciousgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok! maybe that guy we fell for was just like you until we married them. so, who's to say you won't do the same when you get married. and if you don't yes, then you are a true gentleman.
2006-10-27 06:40:22 · answer #9 · answered by Daisie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys that treat girls good is what "supposedly" women want, but from my point of view women like the guys that treat them like ****, but that keep them happy at the same time. Why I dunno. because if you ask a girl that question...she will deny it to the bone.
2006-10-27 06:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by mami17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋