and they are really sweet and you start connecting with them - then, without a word just disappear. If you try and contact them more than a couple times, you feel like a psycho-stalker and they won't contact you to tell you what happened or what you did wrong? What the heck?!!????? What's wrong with these men?
2006-10-27 06:29:53 · 12 answers · asked by Leisa W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either they have a fear of commitment or they realized you were not who they were looking for. Either way it is time to move on to another one.
2006-10-27 06:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Rich Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guys you're describing are disconnected from their feelings to the point that they're afraid of them. The other time I was talked with a girlfriend of mine and made an analogy that love is like starting a business you may have to try may different avenues before it happens.
Although with love let you heart lead the way. Thinking about it too much kills the whole feeling.
2006-10-27 06:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, it could be a few reasons. He could genuinely be attracted to you but a. has a significant other he hasn't told you about b. met someone he's more interested in c. has had an ex turn back up who wants to give it another shot, or d. feels like he's not ready for something "serious". These scenarios are off the top of my head and mostly from experience. It's infuriating, though, isn't it?
2006-10-27 06:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mila 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've read that they always start with being eager.. then take the next week or fortnight retreating and evaluating if that's what they really want...and by the third stage, when they've decided, they'll act. So give them time, live your life and if they come back, good for u. If they dont, move on to the next guy :)
2006-10-27 06:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not looking for commitment. You should clear that up right away in the future so you don't have the problems you're having now. I myself would like a little commitment 'cause I've had the same problem with women!
Have a great day!!!
2006-10-27 06:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Players, you've heard of them, just out for what they can get, a quick cheap thrill, you're picking the wrong guys hun.
Don't bother stalking them, they ignore you, you ignore them.. do onto others as they do onto you!!
goodluck finding a better guy
2006-10-27 06:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by crash2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're messed up in the head. Basically they don't know what they want and trust me you're better off without these unstable men.
2006-10-27 06:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by AnGeLeYeZ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have learned that men are from another planet than women. We are considerate and affectionate when they are complete a holes. So just be yourself and move on.
2006-10-27 06:37:54 · answer #8 · answered by ciaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they didn't get that something they wanted from you.
They were there for sex, or something free.
Have no respect for you.. so you are better off with them out of your life.
2006-10-27 06:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happens usually when i wake up there gone and my purse is missing...and keys one time my dog was taken, but he returned him i was hoping that the dog would stay gone.
2006-10-27 06:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋