my ex sent me a msg this morning saying" stop ubusing my brother" and i dont have any idea about what he was talking about, his brother didnt like me from the 1st day we met, well thats not a problim, bcoz he is not a polite person, not only to me, but to everyone around him.
my ex was not polite in his msg at ALL, for something i havent even done and as you all know he wont beilive me, for sure he wil bielive his brother, u know how the story goes.
what shall i do
shall i msg him and b as rude as he was to me, which will be very hard to do so?
or what do u advice me to do?
thnx for everybody anyway
2006-10-27 06:19:12 · 23 answers · asked by emely A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Erase the message and then with maturity put his in the back of your mind. If you stoop to his level, you look just as childish as he does right now.
2006-10-27 06:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he does believe his brother instead of you he is not worth knowing. Maybe the brother is jealous of your relationship and has made something up to split you up which he has probably done by the sound of it. If you cannot trust your boyfriend to back you up against his brother he is not worth knowing. I would not send a nasty message back that is what he wants you to do so he can cause a row and probably finish with you I would just put that you do not understand the message and leave it at that, he will have to reply to tell you what he is getting at. Good luck.
2006-10-27 12:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, excuse me if i am wrong but you sound very young! you must have more respect for yourself than to lower your standards to your boyfriends level. It will bother him so much if you just ignore his text messages and get on with your life. You say your boyfriend isn`t polite.... well it sounds as though you are better off without him. I know its hard to break up and you sit there and think life is crap and start listening to all the old love songs etc etc but believe me (as a mum of four and 41) life is too short to worry about immature boyfriends. Get yourself out and about and remember have some self esteem and respect for yourself and make friendships first. The saying is (All good things come to those who wait) good luck and take care. mac x
2006-10-27 06:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by mac`s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry this is indeed hurtful to you. I know it will leave it unresolved but the best thing you can do is hold your head high with the knowledge of the truth........and walk away. Delete this boyfriend from phone and mind. Get out with your friends, and realise you are worth a lot more than this sort of rat.
2006-10-27 09:03:20 · answer #4 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do seem very young..but you are right to be upset. 'Abuse' is such a strong word. I'd not be able to respond to his txt...maybe saying 'i have no idea what your brother is spinning you but since you two arent part of my life anymore id appreciate if you would delete my number from your phone'
Good luck..move on and remember not all boys are like the imature one you picked first time round x
2006-10-27 07:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by theoldecrone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could either ignore him or send him a message saying you dont appreciate his tone, you dont know what he is talking about and you would like it if he wouldnt message you again. Be firm but polite, you cant look bad for that. Good luck hun its no big thing so dont worry xx
2006-10-27 06:26:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should msg him back and be very nice and explain to him that you have never done anything to his brother. If he chooses not to believe you then so be it. You tried to explain to him and that is all you can do. Good Luck!
2006-10-27 06:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by ciaboo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not just ignore the message..i would send him a message back and tell him what's on your mind..
Let him know how you feel about his brother and that whatever he said he's lieing on you..Tell him if he wants to be stupid enough to belive that lie then do it...Then tell him your done with him and his brother issues..
I bet he'll be changin his tone then.
2006-10-27 06:25:35 · answer #8 · answered by mmarie1221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother answering back. buy a new sim card for ur mobile fone. start afresh. don`t contact them in any way at all. if there is any contact then all u have to say is " please leave me to get on wiv my life" and say it politely. if they persist then tell them u`ll have no choice but to call the police and press for harrassment charges. time they grew up i think! good luck to u
2006-10-27 09:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by graham f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him some catdirt in the mail. That'll teach the fook out of 'im.
2006-10-27 07:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by Catdirtplex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋