WHY the heck do x's contact a person after years of a break up? I mean I have two that have recently contacted me after 3 years. I am lost and would like to know your opinion...They both want to get back together. One is far far away and the other is in another town not far away. What gives?????????
2006-10-27 06:17:56 · 23 answers · asked by MOM OF ONE 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe something in their life has made them realize what they lost in you. Now they want a chance to make it right. The thing is, you broke up for a reason and that probably hasn't changed.
2006-10-27 06:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Donna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but men are funny that way. Maybe they didn't realize what they had until they had a little time to see what else was out there and now they see you as the one who got away. There is nothing wrong with being friends with someone from your past, but I feel they are ex's for a reason, and you should keep them that way.
2006-10-27 13:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by arrizona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like they say They don't miss the goodness until it is gone.
If I were you I wouldn't even waste the time to try and hold a conversation with them after 3 years of no contact until now.
2006-10-27 13:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends which of you broke up with the other person. I know that my ex called me about 6 months after she broke up with me with the same story, wanting to get back together. I guess they realize they made a mistake and want to reckon the situation, to see if you would go back with them.
2006-10-27 13:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do that because they have realized no one else will put up with them like you did Or they know now they let the good one get away.
2006-10-27 13:23:07 · answer #5 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have been a great sex partner with them. Men tend to always remember those hot sexual encounters from their past & always want one last shot for old times sake.
2006-10-27 13:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they figure that you were willing to f**k them before so you might be willing now. Probably hard up at the moment, that's all. Have a little willpower and do what's right for you.
2006-10-27 13:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by burnttoast97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just beacuse of sex, they can't forget the good times you spent together and maybe they are horny so they will just try to make you have sex with them. there is a saying that says" Where there was FIRE, ASHES would stay" therefore it just needs a light breeze for the fire to begin again.
2006-10-27 13:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by BABY BOY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They've either failed in one or more relationships since your break-up, or, they've determined you were BETTER than the the others they've dated thus far; or your their last best hope, their last resort.
You're worth more, though, than they realize.
2006-10-27 13:22:40 · answer #9 · answered by Eric 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they are realizing what they had with you and are trying to get back with you cause they realize they lost a good thing
2006-10-27 13:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋