2006-10-27 06:17:27 · 9 answers · asked by len p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's always a reason for a breakup and if you two get back together, that reason will come back again to haunt you. Ex's belong in the past. Keep your ex there, you'll be much better for it.
2006-10-27 06:20:53 · answer #1 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You question concerns me precisely because it leaves out the most important person here:YOU!
What do you want? The question is and never should be "what MUST I do?" Instead, what do you want and need? What led to break-up or separation in the first place?
If these issues are not resolved, you can expect exactly the same result--a break-up.
To this, be certain that you are not confusing "love" and "sex." You speak of an ex-lover, but I sense that you put a high premium on the sexual aspects of that relationship. If you, are you interested in this person ONLY because the sex is good and the "chemistry" seems right?
YOu'll find that that very same chemistry is right more times than not! There has to be something more to hold your relationship together than his "desire" to "have you."
But first and foremost, put yourself back INTO the entire discussion. If you want this person, if you are willing to resolve past issues, and if you are willing to grow together (it has, all said and done, been three years, and MUCH changes in three yeasr, for you, for that other person, as well!), they show your interest in rekindling a relationship.
Otherwise, you have to make another call: is this person the stuff of one-nighters? Or is this person just another "ship" that needs to keep passing. . . .
The bottom line: YOU should not put yourself in a position to be hurt. NO. Never. Or, at least, not again!
2006-10-27 13:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by minsung_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you "must" bear in mind that if your separation was due to personal differences, whatever those were at the time may still be a factor despite the 3 yrs spent apart.
2006-10-27 13:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Coreydan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went back to my ex after three years... BIG mistake. Don't do it.
2006-10-27 13:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how you feel for her and if the sparks are still there if so give it another shot if not then just be friends
2006-10-27 13:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by devon a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel something for him....accept his friendship, if not say that you don't want to be his girlfriend anymore.
2006-10-27 13:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Night Sorrows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT take him back
2006-10-27 13:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go back
2006-10-27 13:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him/her that you have moved on
2006-10-27 13:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by tanky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋