you have to follow your hart, if he hits you now it will only get worse after you marry him. i to was on my own from the time i was 14. it was very hard i got emancipated at 16 lived on the street for awhile, got hooked on drugs but i finely pulled myself together. got off drugs went to school. found a good job and even found peace with my parents. all of this took a long time i was a drug addict from 15-18 homeless most of that time.then at 18 i found a job the man that gave it to me knew i was an addict. he let me sleep at work helped me get clean he even cosigned for my first home. he convinced me to go back to school their are good people in this world that will help you if you choose to leave him. you can go to a shelter for abused women find work save your money get your own place you don't need a man to take care of you. good luck
2006-10-27 07:14:01
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answered by steamroller98439 6
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Have more faith in yourself then that you can and you will make it. You're allready stepping in the right direction by asking for help here but you need to get ahold of the authorities and maybe some counselling would help you as well. If you parents don't want you back in their home then find a friend or another family member who will let you live there and get a job too until you get on your feet again. But more important don't stay with the jerk you're with he's a wife beater do you really want that and he may even hurt your kids in the future as well. Leave him and the sooner the better. Don't worry about where you'll go. Contact the YWCA if you have to for help or a charity or church. Do what you have to. But don't stay with him.
2006-10-27 06:22:35
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answered by dave_83501 4
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Honey listen...You need to leave him. He told you he wanted to see how far he could take it. He will go farther and I would hate to see you in the hospital or worse-THE MORGUE. People don't and shouldn't abuse someone if they TRULY LOVE THEM. Come on dear think about it. You have a head on your shoulders. Mr. Right is out there somewhere and will treat you with the respect you deserve and give you love like you are the only girl in the world. Please leave before it is too late. I know it is scary to be alone. I hate being alone but I would not put up with the abuse. You deserve so much more. Get a job(if you don't have one) that will allow you to get a place of your own. And get things straight in your life. Find out what you really want so when Mr. Right comes around you will notice it. PLEASE DON'T STAY IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP your LIFE could depend on it.
2006-10-27 06:27:22
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answered by CGS 3
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I grew up in a similar situation..where my Dad stayed in jail most of my life and my mom was married to this pervert that tried to molest my little sister and show us his parts...I got in a relationship with an older man that cheated on me alot and didn't treat me right and I was 15..but I had no choice but to stay with him, I didn't have any family to turn too..It was hell, But I made it through..But you do what you have to do...There is help out there...You just gotta know where to look...Don't throw your life away on a man that won't treat you right..If I could go back and change my past I would....But I learned the hard way...I would call around to some agencies and see what they can help you with...There is always another way....Good Luck i hope the best for you...
2006-10-27 06:21:22
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answered by mmarie1221 2
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I am so sorry to hear ur story,,,,I didnt see the last question and what he did which made u want to leave..Any way if he is ur fiance...Its good coz he wants to make u his wife which is any mans priority.A guy that doent want to just take u fro granted and wants to protect u....Its a big thing to make a commitment. Since u are alone I dont know ur situation.
Hope u can write ur full question so i can help u more.
2006-10-27 06:19:31
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answered by Anonymous
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Sweetie, 'fair' is a place that cows win ribbons. Life ISN'T fair !!!!! It sucks that it seems that everyone has abandoned you (I know the feeling) But you have 2 choices - 'make it' or 'give up'. If you chose to make it, then it's going to be a lot of hard work. But it'll be something that no one will ever be able to take away from you. I didn't read your other question, but ask yourself "are you better off WITH him or WITHOUT him ?" make your decision based on that....
Best of luck !!!!!
2006-10-27 06:21:23
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answered by barhopper 4
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That's hard.First off do you work? If so then you need to start to save money to move out on your own. maybe you could contact a local woman's shelter to see about getting info on charities that will help you obtain some solid foundation. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-10-27 06:25:48
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answered by cwallflower32 3
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gee thats a tough question
no wonder you let you fiance treat you like ****.
my best advice to you would be to go to your local social services they should be able to help you out with finding a place and a point you in the direction of a job (assuming you dont have one that is.) they;ll be able to help you claim benefits till your sorted and they'll be able to get you some councilling too it sounds like you mite need it. and i still say get rid of the ****
good luck
2006-10-27 06:22:07
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answered by rosierotweiller 2
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Ohhh....honey, you poor thing, it sounds like you have had a very rough life, i don't quite understand the question, but i want you to know that I will be praying for you in this situation if its okay with you? good luck, and God bless!
2006-10-27 06:19:05
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answered by Anonymous
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listen you don't have to depend on no ***** you could do it and you will make it with or without him i understand what you been threw just pray to god seek him first and trust me everything else would fall in place just leave it to him and he will take care of it because in his word he said if you ask unto me i shall give to the. your still young go to school adn become somebody you could do it just have a little faith there has to be somebody who would take you in.
2006-10-27 06:21:04
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answered by Mz.Tweety 2
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