what would be a good solution for this?

Question

A person i have feelings for has feelings for a differnt girl. But he believes that the relationship won't go anywhere. He once said "if a girl likes you, you've got to give her a chance."

And I do like him. But it bothers me that i'm a little heavier than him (because he's so skinny) and he has feelings for another girl.

I don't know how to handle this situation. Advice anyone?

Answer 1

Tell him. Yeah, yeah, I know it's cliche. Everyone tells you to to just tell the person you have feelings. But why waste your time commiserating over whether to tell him or what to tell him. Talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If it is meant to be then it will work out. If it's not going to happen, then you've saved your self time, heart break and a lot of stress. If you don't say anything to him, you'll never know. Take it from a person that has been through the same situation.

Answer 2

I know how u feel.
But guess what.
I found true love.
Be his friend, have him get to know u.
U also get to know him.
Find out the things u hav in common.
Find out what u r looking for in a mate.
Then once u know that u guys can click.
Say U know what _______ I think I like U.
See what he says, u may be surprised,
that he may say I like u too.
Then take it from there.
Good Luck.

Answer 3

It sounds as if you are (or might be) friends. I would maybe ask him to do something fun as friends with you if it goes well I would maybe take it further if not there is your answer. And I am a little heavier then my husband and he has NEVER dissed me about my weight.

Answer 4

Open the package, remove the contents, and follow the instructions.

Answer 5

Let him know how you feel or just move on with your life.