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Question

how many of you go for just personality and in ur opinion are looks really just on the inside????????

Answer 1

No sorry personality is a big part of what I look for but even the best personality would not make me date a butt ugly girl I would love to hang with her but that's it you have to remember that looks are important Sully because if you are not attracted. You could never fully love the person in a relationship the sex would never be right, respect out the window not to mention comfort level out the window you have to be proud of who your with otherwise a person wont try you can't be with someone you think your better then. and if you know there not that cute then that's should be it don't put yourself or be placed in a position that someone will get hurt it's just not worth it for either side.

Answer 2

Well you've heard from the young and the old alike. Let me give you a real man's oppinion. When I was a teenager I went for looks sure. But now with more years and more wisdom and some been there and done that experience with my now x gf and finace same girl by the way. I can see that looks are just skin deep it's what she or he really has on the inside that counts seriously. I speak from experience here.

Answer 3

Looks are the first thing you notice and then the personality comes in second. Nice looking people aren't anything without a personality and you wouldn't stay wirth them. On the other hand you don't to go out with someone who is so ugly as you have to look at them every morning ha ha!!! BUt then what I find ugly someone else might find nice - see there is someone for everyone!!

Answer 4

I don't think you can have one without the other. Men are visual creatures so looks are very important, but we also value a quality personalitytoo. After all, a girl with good looks but a horrible character won't last longer than one date. However, though looks are important, remember that everyone's taste is different. What one person thinks is ugly or unattractive, another may think is beautiful.

Answer 5

Looks attract, personality binds. Then the better the personality, the less the looks matter. It's a sliding scale, but the total has to be high enough for the guy to stay.

Answer 6

For me looks and personality go together. i'm not saying looks are everything but i wanna be attracted to someone at the same time. a cute person may have a personality that will turn me off and the looks won't even matter to me he might as well be ugly. i can't just go with someone for their personality because the physical attraction and chemistry won't b there which won't appeal to me....who doesn't want to b attracted to their bf/gf?

Answer 7

I tend to go for personality, It's like if you got joy on the inside, it shows on the out, or beauty comes from within. I'd rather have a cute girl, who has a fantastic personality, then a hot girl who has no personality at all!!

Answer 8

I go for the personality the looks are really nothing. They have to know how to treat me with kindness. If what you are trying to say is the outer beauty is not as important as inner beauty. They need to have a good heart.

Answer 9

the first thing you see when you meet anybody is their looks , so its hard to see their personality., so I would say that personality comes in second. Or if you are like me I take anything thats visible (eyes nose smile butts boobs, whatever) and make it beautiful, even if they are not as good looking as others. I dont think im making sense but i know what i mean. thats why alot of people think that I have bad taste in women.

Answer 10

Personality is the key, but there has to be an attraction, just because you get on with some one doesnt mean you fancy them. So looks are important too, but you need both for a relationship...depends on what your looking for I guess...