my ex is in jail and he's not getting out till december and i like one of his friends and want to get with him is this a bad move?
2006-10-27 06:01:37 · 28 answers · asked by devon a 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bad move! December is a very short time away. At best you are going to cause harsh feelings towards you, at worst you will cause hard feelings towards all three of you.
2006-10-27 06:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to take a step back and analyze the decisions you make. Why is your ex in jail - is that indicative of the type of character you like in men? Is his friend similar? You are asking for trouble taking that path. Maybe youve been ex'es for awhile and your ex doesnt care but how do you think his friend will feel about it? Tread lightly.
2006-10-27 13:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by etile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your exes friend is fine with it, then I wouldn't worry about it. Unless of course your ex is getting out of jail for laying the smack-down on a girl for dating one of his friends...then I'd worry. If you had a good relationship and broke up remaining friends, and he's a reasonable, kind person, then it shouldn't be a problem.
2006-10-27 13:35:19 · answer #3 · answered by straightup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think of why your ex is in jail and if his friend is the same type of person before you decide to get involved in the same type of relationship. Also check your motives for dating a friend of your ex...do you secretly want to get back at him?
2006-10-27 13:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell! Of course this is a bad mood. It's trashy and completely dishonest and disrespectful. It will just show how much of a tramp you are. And don't take offense, but you know it's true if someone else does something like this. Your ex's FRIEND is just that - he's a friend of YOUR EX. NOT YOU.
2006-10-27 13:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think its sucha bad move 1 becuasae its a friend of ur ex and u dont want them 2 become enimies so go talk to both of them and see whats up if your ex can take it like a man and still be both of your friends den he truly love but if not you gotta go wit ur heart cuz thats whats gunna help you in the end
2006-10-27 13:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by babiigurll15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it, regarless of your ex being in jail. and also how close of friends they really were. I would get mad and stop talking and even punch out my friends if they ever like or do something with an ex of mine. so be smart and dont ruin a friendship.
2006-10-27 13:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by CuriousJorge07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure if you want to put your ex back in jail go right ahead with that. But really it deoends on what his friend said and if you and your ex are friends.
2006-10-27 13:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Miss k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't!!! Resist the temptation no matter how HOT he is. There's an unwritten rule, never date your ex's friends. You'll regret it. What do you think both of these guys will think of you? There's so many men, look somewhere else.
Also ask yourself how you'd feel if your ex dated one of your friends or one of your relatives?
2006-10-27 13:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by hypnotic68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to go there?? How would you feel if your ex started dating one of your friends? Ask yourself that question, if you think it's ok for him to date one of your friends, then go for it.
2006-10-27 13:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by NIKKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋