2006-10-27 05:59:28 · 13 answers · asked by Brandis Diann 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just go up and tell her that you find her very beautiful and would love to know her better, and ask her if she would like to hang out, maybe a movie or something. You will never get anything unless you take a chance every once in a while. Good luck.
2006-10-27 06:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! A good question that deserves a responsible, thoughtful answer.
I want first to say that the issue is as much a question of maturity and self-awareness as it is about "who likes whom." Having said as much, now ask yourself these or similar questions:
1. How mature (not how "old") is my friend? Maturity is an important issue to resolve. Can your friend respond to you with similar respect and affection? Or has your friend yet to come to grips with self-sexuality. . . .
2. Just what do "like" and "friendship" mean to ME? Don't confuse the affections shared between friends as necessarily being sexual in nature. Furthermore, do you expect your "affections" to be sexual in nature? And if so, just how important to your friendship is it if your friend cannot reciprocate on that same level?
3. When I express "like" to my a friend, what am I offering and what am I expecting? If the relationship moves from a warm friendship to something deeper and sexually significant, how important, for example, is the issue of monogamy? Are you willing to commit to a one-on-one relationship? Do you expect the same?
Now, after asking these questions, let me speak from personal experience:
Be absolutely that you are not confusing a good friend with something more. Time and again, I have approached a valued friend (yes, some of whom are bi) and, rather than slowly and directly expressing my feelings, have allowed a sexual advance (not always subtle) to get in te way. I have also lost good friends because of this.
Let me suggest instead that you allow your actions to carry as much weight as your words. It's easy to say you "like" or care for a person--now, show that person. I am not suggesting flowers, chocolates and moon-lit strolls. I am suggesting, however, that you offer quality time together, that you consider sharing dinners or catching a movie--in short, that you do DATE in addition to coming together physically.
A solid relationship between two people is so much more when it balances sexual desire with mutual respect and admiration. Make certain that you truly KNOW what it is to LIKE a person.
2006-10-27 06:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by minsung_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her over a few drinks and watch the sparks fly!
2006-10-27 06:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and say. "Hey bi-friend I tihnk your hot and I want to get on that'
if she slaps you she doesnt think its funny and if she laughs she thinks its cute
2006-10-27 06:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Juleette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just come out and tell her. if shes bi then it shudnt bother her.
good luck
2006-10-27 06:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her
2006-10-27 06:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell here and hope for the best
2006-10-27 06:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by stevens_monroe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest! have a few drinks before~
2006-10-27 06:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by Alesha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her
2006-10-27 06:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by Love to be Hated 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put on a nice steamy video and tell her...
2006-10-27 06:02:15 · answer #10 · answered by annann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋