do you think the normal guitar/singing guys at parties are cool, sexy, trying too hard, hopeless, sad, doing it to pick up ladies, WHAT....
this of course assumes they are fairly talented and the bulk of the people seem to enjoy it.
thanks
P.S. im not talking about parties that have a band playing there but the guy who brings his guitar with him.
2006-10-27 05:57:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trying too hard, but really depends on age. I am sure all the high school and fresh grad would be all over it, but people who are mature adults, going to a party for a good time, not cool. The guitar is good for bon fires and such, but not at a party. I think this guy would be a desparate attention seeker, and come across as a loser.
2006-10-27 06:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by shrimpseys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some ladies would think that it is sexy but when and if they form a badn, it would suck b/c while she's out dancing with every body and their brother you have to be on stage.... She may find someone else in the long run to go hang with b/c you are to busy with the guitar... Some guys thing their a great player and singer but in actuality they suck and they are just irritating but no one wants to tell them b/c they don't want to hurt anyones feelings. Some people do like to hear live music when at a party some would think it is better then a radio or cd's.... I think guys who do this are doing it b/c they like what they do, they may like to entertain others as well as liking their own hobby... Some though may use it as a pick up but highly doubt they get very fair and if they do it will probably be just one night stands...
2006-10-27 06:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dweebs. I hate when the dweeb sets himself up in the middle of things and starts playing some lame song on his guitar and expects everyone to stand around in silence to listen. It's a manipulative attention grabber.
The bulk of the people don't enjoy it. They're just trapped and have to be polite.
Hopeless, trying to hard, manipulative, and self-centered. Who brings a guitar to a party?
2006-10-27 06:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I usually think, ugh..its THAT guy. The guy who wants people to go up to him and pay attention to him and ask him about his music and wants all the young giggly girls to coo over him. Cuz that's usually how it is.
But every now and then you get the legit guy with the guitar who actually loves music and brings his guitar with him because he's lost without it and can actually play something besides Dave Matthew's "Crash".
That's the guy I'll take the time to listen to him play guitar.
2006-10-27 06:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's cool if guys play the guitar and stuff. But some of my friends find it annoying if their hoping to talk to him and all he ever does is play his guitar, and nothing else. I've seen it happen and a lot of people get pissed off. But personally i think it's cool.
2006-10-27 06:02:42 · answer #5 · answered by crazy little thing called love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that guy is a total f ucking loser.
i'm 39 years old, so i speak from experience, and believe it or not, at adult parties there sometimes is that SAME loser not necessarily the same guy, but may as well be) with his guitar thinking it's cool for the LADIES to enjoy his diddling and flinging his ponytail about that's holding about 8 strands of hair because he's been balding since high school.
yup....LOSER.
2006-10-27 06:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UHm....unfortunately i've never been at a party where a guy brought his guitar...I guess it's kinda hot if it's john mayer-ish...I dunno though, if he has a lot of friends and they all wanted him to play thats cool! But if it's just some random guy that carries his guitar around...tell him to go stand on the street corner and earn a few bucks! :)
2006-10-27 05:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Alesha W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guitar playing is hot. If you are good. Singing, thats kind of iffy. Don't sing love songs.
2006-10-27 05:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by A.C.Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the type of party and the place. Our house is pretty laid back. I'm married to a drummer, so it isn't unusual for people to bring their instruments with them when they visit us.
2006-10-27 06:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my opinion if you can play guitar good bring it, if your hot thats even better, but it has to be good guitar music like guns and roses, acdc, and black sabbbath, not girly crap like james blunt!!!
2006-10-27 06:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋