...if he'd asked you out and you didn't like him?
2006-10-27 05:49:48 · 24 answers · asked by sandie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But you aren't really gay.
2006-10-27 05:51:08 · update #1
I'm assuming you aren't really gay, but just saying that to get rid of the guy.
What if he's always had this thing about making it with a lesbian? It might actually turn him on, especially if he starts thinking about a threesome.
I think you're probably better off just being honest.
2006-10-27 06:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Allen Montgomery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused.. you are gay? or you just don't want to go out with this guy?
- if you are gay, tell him, that should take care of that.
- if you are gay but like guys too then you're Bi, not gay, whats the problem.
- if you're not gay... is that a lable you want to have?
My best advice is to be honest.. If you just don't want to go out with him.. SAY SO!!!
2006-10-27 05:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done this when pissed. It's entertaining, but beware: some very sad men are obsessed with lesbians. You may find yourself incredibly fascinating in a new way to this guy, and then not only will you not be able to shake him - you'll have to keep up the pretense.
2006-10-27 06:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to lie! Just tell the truth. Tell him you aren't interested. What's the worst that could happen? Honesty is the best policy. Good luck x
2006-10-27 05:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by katem1992 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth-You don't want to go out with him. Otherwise false rumors that you are gay might spread like wildfire.
2006-10-27 05:53:45 · answer #5 · answered by Chuck R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep. I have done.
When I was 29, me & a mate were getting hit on my two horrible blokes at a club, so we told them we were gay, they said they didnt believe us, so we had a snog on the dancefloor. It worked, they buggered off and we scored with some nice blokes instead.
2006-10-27 05:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by lozzielaws 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea seeing as he would get no where, but why be gay?
2006-10-27 05:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Miss k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I would say No thanks
why do you have to say your gay?
2006-10-27 05:51:44 · answer #8 · answered by Willow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly it relies upon if u carry out lots and r ealy sense like ur close. if u arelike ultimate pals..wait do u flirt with eachother reason that ought to enable u be attentive to. and if ur totalyl in love u ought to justy telll him reason he will porbly sense a similar way approximately u
2016-11-25 23:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth that your not interested
he might suggest a threesome if you said your gay
2006-10-27 05:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋