Okay, so I went to the bar/club last night. I was dancing, happily, alone, and this guy came up, and started dancing with me. That was okay; we were just doing a lot of twirls. Then he kissed me! Okay, so it's been a while since I've gone out, but is this okay? Do you just walk up and kiss random strangers?
2006-10-27 05:46:08 · 16 answers · asked by Heather 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I am married, and was wearing my wedding rings
2006-10-27 05:52:24 · update #1
it is called no respect for you, he thinks you are a tramp ready to get it on
2006-10-27 05:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He totally crossed the line. That kind of behavior can totally be considered sexual harassment, no matter if he thinks you were "leading him on" or "wanted it". He invaded your personal space and touched you in an inappropriate way that made you feel uncomfortable. Next time, be sure to keep some space between you and if he moves in, slap him and call for a bouncer to get him outta there!
2006-10-27 09:19:59 · answer #2 · answered by brainy_blonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In which country are you at the moment? I think he was being very daring. It also depends on how you were behaving, coz if he thought you were leading him on he might just be responding to that. If you were from different cultures, reading signals can be difficult. Either way, I would have to say he moved a little quickly if all you did was swirl with him on the dancefloor a bit...
2006-10-27 05:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by asajoh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Eww - hope he didnt have herpies!!!
No that isnt acceptable at all - i hope you pushed him away... well i guess you werent fast enough. Be alert next time... dancing is fine but the kiss was totally wrong.
Arent you super happy you are married and dont have to deal with jerks like that on the dating scene!?!?!
2006-10-27 06:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by !?!?! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's definitely no okay for anyone to touch you, nonetheless kiss you. If it happens again you should get a bouncer.
2006-10-27 06:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, if only we could walk up and kiss strangers!
He would be considered a jackass in most circles
2006-10-27 05:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by lowflyer1 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He was way out of line!
2006-10-27 05:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Diane P 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Never ok. He was invading your personal space. Next time slap him silly.
2006-10-27 05:53:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
thats the wonderfulpeople that are out now, they think they can do whatever they want. and it's not okay, i would have slapped him.....
2006-10-27 06:09:42 · answer #9 · answered by ema 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Etiquette and Bar umm isn't that an oxymoron? especially in this day and age...
2006-10-27 05:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by The Thinker 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋