Is it always the case in a relationship that there has to be someone who is chasing the other to some degree? Is it always the case that people either (a) feel unhappy b/c they want something from the other that the other won't give or (b) feel crowded by the other person demanding more from them than they want to give? If you disagree, was it true that the time where you felt no inequity in a relationship short-lived?
In short-Do people only want what they can't have?
2006-10-27 05:21:22 · 13 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I want what I can't have... I read a poem that started "She that denies me, I will have. She that long for me I scoff" Not QUITE me but I do like a challenge. Sadly if she can't give me another challenge I move on...
2006-10-27 05:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by beau0021 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as the saying goes 'absence make the heart grow fonder'
Most people do want what they can't have, it shows different in different people, but whatever it may be, it's usually what happens.
As for chasing. or you can call it the one that gives in a relationship, it's always one that needs to chase/give in. So I agree, there is always someone in a relationship that needs to do that.
Yes, you do also feel crowded by the person that always wants what you can't give.
So this is in sorts a complex question. If you want further help.. please try to be more direct with your question.
for your in short question: Not all people only want what they can't have... some have their act together and just know where they are headed, some don't.
2006-10-27 05:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always. Sometimes you meet a guy and he likes you as much as you like him, the feelings are equal. Your personalities match well, you have the same interests, you enjoy each others company, you feel like you have been waiting for this person your whole life.
This is the best balance, your soul mate.
Dont stay in any relationship that is one sided (where you chase him or he chases you) not equal, and not a match made in heaven. Keep looking that one special person is out there waiting just for you.
2006-10-27 05:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nevada Pokerqueen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel people with this problem are looking to the other what they lack themselves. When one really cares for someone they want to please the other person and not for the reason to get something in return. It should be totally unselfish. The only way a relationship works is that both give 100% of themselves. Don't even bother with selfish people. They"ll drain you dry!
Retter Ran
2006-10-27 05:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Retter Ran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that always the case. People are just not satisfied with what they have anymore they always want more this more that. That's why there is so many problem in this world. I think..
2006-10-27 05:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its true. . . I have been chasing a girl for a while now but she doesn't want anything to do with me, yet the girls that are chasing me, i don't want them
2006-10-27 05:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by RoadKill 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes very true.we always want more and more and when we will get this more we want another more.That is a sad fact, but true!
2006-10-27 05:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitiely, when you have it, you see everything you don't care for. When it is gone, you only ache for the things you liked.
2006-10-27 05:25:22 · answer #8 · answered by trooperthorntton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jess I have told you numerous times you cannot have me!
Please do not take our "issues" and place them in a forum it is just between you and I. I know you sooooooooo desire me but it will not work out!
2006-10-27 05:24:17 · answer #9 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes
2006-10-27 05:25:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋