2006-10-27 05:17:19 · 21 answers · asked by love_tmb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, there is always hope! There is someone for everyone out there. Sometimes we don't meet them because it isn't the right time. Sometimes we need to grow up more before meeting "the one". I married at 27 the first time, and then 33 the second time. Trust me....my second husband is perfect for me. Was I a lost cause at 33, and divorced. Hell no! And either are you! Mr. Right will come along when it's time. Don't get down on yourself, and don't settle for less.
2006-10-27 05:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, 35 is the new 18/20. Take it from me, I am 21 and I know a girl going on 30 that is at her wit's end thinking this is her last chance to have a child. At 35 you have new meaning: you are younger than 35 year olds were 10 years ago, even 5 years ago, and you still have a HUGE chance to find someone. I bet you are very attractive, and have the personality that most women would kill for. There are still years of chances for you to find your true love and everything. Don't look at it as an end to hope, look at it as a new beginning. I look at 35 as still very young, and I wish you luck, although I dont think you need it!
2006-10-27 05:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by overwhelmed85 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I see it everyday. Average women with ridiculous high standards and little to offer. Most women think what they want in a relationship. They want this and that and he got to be this tall and funny and take me on trips. They never think what does the man want and what do I have to offer. Listening to Steve will only get you so far. Keep in mind Steve use to be a Q and is a two time divorcee with who knows how many kids and this is the person you choose to get relationship advice from? I'm not saying lower your standards but what I am saying is that their are good men all around you the problem is no woman wants a good man. Women do not want that Honda driving, Slack wearing, Tighty-whity wearing, Lunch packing, 9 to 5-er. Society has fooled women so much that they really don't know what a good man is. A good man is one who loves and cares for you and his family, protects his children, loves his mother, his family, and God. Take chances and deals with the outcomes. A good man is caring, dedicated, and responsible. Todays women only want a 6' brother with a nice car and Abs who takes her on trips. That is not a real man. Women chose men for any reason other than the kind of man he is or will be. Women like men because they can dance the salsa. Look at yourself and be honest 35, still in school, less body than you had at 25. Your man is probably blue collar, mid 40, and raising a kid on his own. If you are lucky he is not in debt, not paying child support, not addicted to porn, and goes to church. Probably not what your looking for, get over yourself cut off your net flicks and find a lonely average guy. The 30 year old man, with Abs, the nice car, white collar guy is looking for a 25 year old. If you want that man you have to compete with a 25 year old that is the fact. Who is to blame not men you just played around a little to long.
2016-03-28 09:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is hope at 35, I wondered the same thing at 35 but a year later I was pregnant and getting married to a wonderful guy, still together and happily we even had another at 39. Have faith.
2006-10-27 05:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Gabriele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! But, don't feel pressured to jump into any relationship just because you think you're running out of time. Most people nowadays are getting married later in life. I'll bet that you are in a better situation at 35 than you were at 25, (financially, emotionally, physically, etc.), to begin a relationship. More to bring to the relationship.
It might be same for you, but most of the people I know in their 30s that got married in their early 20s, are they divorced now, and are in their 2nd and 3rd relationships. And the ones that are still married wish they were single!!!!!!!
2006-10-27 05:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by hypnotic68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is hope at any age. You are only as old as you feel, anyone can look beautiful at any age therefore if you are 35 45 55 you can still be beautiful. My mom divorced my dad at age 45 she is 47 now and engaged to a 31 year old, YES there is a big age difference but she is happy, and ready to start a new life! I think age is just a number, and you are a beautiful lady..GOOD LUCK..to you and your new dating life style!!
2006-10-27 05:23:06 · answer #6 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl yes, there is life after 35 years young. I will be 39 on next Saturday and life began at 36 years. I enjoyed my life up until 33 and decided to settle down and just take care of my children. Originally, I did not want to get married but decided at 33 that I did. My family tried to force me to marry several of the many guys that I had previously dated but they were not the ones for me. I met my husband 4 years ago and married him 2 years ago will be on November 19th. Be patient and do not worry or concentrate on marriage - just enjoy life.
2006-10-27 05:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl please as thirsty as these men are even if you were....fat, greasy and cheesy which i'm sure you are not....believe me there is a man out there for you.Maybe you are just not putting yourself in the right places to meet the men you need to meet.
DON'T DO THE ONLINE DATING THING...cuz remember where ever you get him from, when you arelooking for him becaus ehe is absent from you that's where you will find him.
Go to church if you don't a real church, not one where the preacher is sleeping with his secretary, but a real church where the people are saved and sold out for Christ and I am sure there you will find a good man. (but make sure you know him 1st)
If you are not already fixing your self up then do that, if sao make some changes, add some color to your hair, cut the hair, grow the hair, put on some make up , a short skirt, some heels...girl do you and he will come when the time is right.
2006-10-27 05:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by wanting to know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 43 and back in the game of dating...its been fun and a real adventure in learning how to treat a woman these days...it has changed since I was last in the dating game!
To answer your question though, YES there is hope!!
2006-10-27 05:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Still hope but you have to be willing to get out there and get notice and have the confidence to accept rejection. \
Find a good book on this subject and do what it tells you as far as getting out there and attracting attention.
2006-10-27 05:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋