The older I get, the more I wish I was not married and able to play the field. There are so many "hot" women out there to get to know better. What's wrong with "window shopping"?
2006-10-27 05:14:29 · 25 answers · asked by SeanB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont really get what you mean by window shopping,,,or flirting, are you making passes at these women?...or just a smile?...are you considering cheating??.....or just a day dream?......seems to me you are not satisfied in your realtionship...it is ok to look at women because we are all beautiful in our own way,.. but to condsider going further than lookin means you are not satisfied at home...you either need to have a serious talk w/your wife about how you can spice things up and ways for her to grab your attention back!....how long have you been married for? well....do you still find your wife as sexy as any of these women?....i say to look at it this way, consider all the feelings you have about these other women,and the things you do or the flirting youdo...now turn it around and pretend your wife was doing the same.....how would you feel, if it is ok for her to do and feel as your do..than maybe its nothing serious or possibly your relationship has little meaning to you anymore....that can heppen...things can be super spicy in the beginning and as time goes by, you get too used to that person and the routine kind of things,,,but id there is true love b/w you too, than a little change can re kindle that flame you miss so much!!! good luck! :)
2006-10-27 05:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by Life....it blows! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is common amongst married men and women these days. The majority of households don't even contain married couples if I remember right. I suppose it's not too bad, you're fitting in with an age that doesn't believe in the "sanctity of marriage," at least in urban areas or areas outside the southern and mountain states.
Is she interested in doing the same? Maybe you can get the swang thang goin'? Turn the marriage into the swinging variety.
Just how old are you, anyways? And how long have you been married? And have you not found a greater reason to live by now than sex?
2006-10-27 05:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by djdep13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Window shopping is normal. The flirting part can lead to disaster. Look, don't act. I think that is the key. We all look, it's human nature for heavens sake. But, flirting only invites a dangerous situation - what if some woman took you up on the flirting, and wanted more? Are you willing to engage that situation? If you are, why are you still married at all?
2006-10-27 05:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are allowed to do so, but it is not to go farther than "window shopping" and i highly suggest that your wife doesn't find out that you look at other women, if it doesn't start a fight it will at least make her more insecure and unhappy with herself and she'll think you're unhappy with her (are you??).... it would simply be a bad strain on the relationship if she's not confident enough to handle it. oh, and i would not suggest flirting, no matter how much you look. it leaves the door open for too much future promise and possible adultery on your side.
2006-10-27 05:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by beneaththemangotree12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your window shopping this means you don't care for what you currently have. You made the decision to get married so I think you should live with it. Whatever problems you have you should work them out. "Yes", there are tons of women walking about on this earth but how many of them can love you the way your wife does? I think your old enough to communicate with your wife.
2006-10-27 06:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by blufiah_tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not alright would you like for your wife to flirt with other people and be attracted to another man. Are you really serious with this question you have devoted your life to a woman that you supposedly love you should have thought about that before you got married ass hole.
2006-10-27 05:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cilla_88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont believe the hype...you're just looking at one side of the pic......running around nowadays....can cost you your life and it ends up being a very lonely road at the end......seeing other attractive woman and admiring them is nothing wrong with that, a little flirting is good...you're married not dead! you should do role playing with your wife, change sceneries, make intimacy more creative. Play out all your fantasies with your wife, make her that woman u just met at the bar, pretend you guys are strangers, etc. it will be so much fun..... But be appreciative of what you have......a woman that truly loves you and a wonderful family (alot of people cant say that and wants it so badly) count your blessings.....
2006-10-27 05:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by teaspoon520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can look and think whatever you want. Just don't touch or flirt in a meaningful manner, as it will lead to going further and further until you've broken your vow to your wife.
2006-10-27 05:20:53 · answer #8 · answered by redjetta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where the mind goes...so goes the body. Window shopping leads to flirting. Flirting leads to cheating. Get a divorce first, then shop all you want. If you value your marriage - take a cold shower.
2006-10-27 05:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Answerer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not. Sounds like you don't love your wife enough to stop your eyes and mind straying. Do you? Problem with window shopping is that you always want to go back and buy
2006-10-27 05:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by Taylor29 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋