OK so me and my boyfriend had been going out for a month and a half but he was always busy so we didnt see eachother all that much so I ended it. It has been a week now and all I can think of is him. I don't know what to do....help!
2006-10-27 05:11:32 · 26 answers · asked by oxEmmaxo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You ended it because it was over before it really got started. I would stick with your decision and move on to going out, meeting new guys, and doing the *play the field* dating. If things are ment for you and him, you will meet up again and spark up the dating each other again. But for now, your lives are just not insink with one anothers. Go out with your friends or favorite family member and just enjoy your life. Good luck and Blessed be........
2006-10-27 05:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be time to move on I'm afraid.
Try writing (or typing) him a personalised letter, explaining how you feel about him and that you are missing him a lot. Ask him whether you can get back together and rediscover the magical spark that you once had in your relationship.
If he doesn't phone or write to you within 7-10 days, cut your losses and develop a new relationship or interests that you know you can make time for. Good Luck.
2006-10-27 12:35:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like me and my ex. When i was going out with him he was always working with his dad doing this and that but we didn't get to see each other that much but we talked on the phone about 2 or 3 times a day and that helped me! But I think that you should go back out with him because you are thinking about him so much and that means that you have feeling for him.
2006-10-27 12:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by Brooke H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he just accept it? If he did he was thinking the same thing and was probably going to end it with you anyway so go out and spend time with your friends and look for someone else. If he's called you since you split then he loves you so give it another go and try to make some time for each other.
2006-10-27 12:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your relationship was lacking communication. I am currently in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend would give anything to spend some time with me. Maybe a lack of communication brought you to the point of breaking up. If you really care about him I think you two should talk about what went wrong. On the other hand, if he is acting like a jerk make sure you notify him of his behaviour.
2006-10-27 12:17:35 · answer #5 · answered by blufiah_tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok judt to let you know maybe he could not take on a realashionship maybe you need to give it a little bit of time or summin cause being busy never talking i know what it feels like so yeah i mean i am sorry but that is the truth give it time
2006-10-27 12:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts now.....pride also bruised......but best you can do is know that the pain will pass. Get back out there and circulate with friends and who knows the real love of your life will be a waiting.
2006-10-27 16:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by eagledreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get back with someone who always busy,I think you need to move on.
2006-10-27 12:18:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In relationships, you face problems. If you really liked him, and he treated you well, get back with him. Tell him that you want to make it work; and if you both are willing to sacrafice more time- you can do it! Don't give up on good relationships.
2006-10-27 12:19:41 · answer #9 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "He's Just Not That Into You" and find someone new that has the time for you and can make you a priority.
2006-10-27 12:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by nice night 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋