i masturbate, and have put thing inside me , i know it was stupid , and did bleed,
so when it come to my first time, i dont think i will bleed now cause it already happened so how will it be like
2006-10-27 04:53:55 · 17 answers · asked by chrstian jesus is god 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may still be uncomfortable and you may still bleed but that will stop eventually. Why worry? 21 and still a virgin good girl, good for you..wish I would of waited...oh well..next life! There is nothing wrong with masterbating you are just exploring your own body and what you like and how...it will make you a better lover for your partner...stop stressing about everything. Good Luck.
2006-10-27 04:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you choose a 'gentle man' in every sense so that the first time will be not be traumatic for you. Re your bleeding comment... it is possible that the hymen has been broken by your 'play' , but it could equally be that you grazed yourself internally and bled for that reason. But don't get too concerned since billions of females over the generations have taken that first step and survived. If your partner is caring bloke, then you should find yourself enjoying the experience - and might even want to do it again! Good luck anyway.
2006-10-27 12:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by avian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I lost my virginity in my twentys and it wasn´t bad at all!... it´s hurtful but is not the end of the world, you are not going to have an orgasm the first time but you are going to enjoy to be with other person in a different level. Just try to do it in the right time and don´t force the situation. Good Luck
2006-10-27 12:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1stly u werent stupid honey u are entitled to do what u want with ur body and experimenting is nothing to be ashamed of.
Ur right u probably wont bleed on ur 1st time but by experimenting u may of made it less painful and more enjoyable
just make sureur 1st time is with someone u trust and care about and im surethe past will detract from the experience
good luck and take care :)
2006-10-27 11:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good sex beats other objects and is less likely to hurt.
Do it with the right person and you will love every minute of it. It could take a few times though as it takes time for you and your partner to search for each others needs etc.
2006-10-27 11:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will see when the time comes...it's different for everyone.
Don't pressure yourself into having sex because you're 21... it is not important to loose your virginity at a certain age. Most guys will think you are more special for waiting for the right guy. Making sure to "not" get any std's is more important than having sex....
2006-10-27 12:01:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what's your question? Sounds like you've had plenty of practice and are ready for the real thing. Now all you need to do is find the right guy! Take it slow the the first time and........Have fun!!!!!!
2006-10-27 11:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not every woman bleeds when she has sex for the first time. and yes, it will probably hurt. the first time is always the worst. mostly mental and not physical. wait for someone you really love and it would be as nerve wracking.
2006-10-27 11:57:57 · answer #8 · answered by anklebiter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you right about that... Ummm you know you can have surgery to "make" you a virgin again. The best thing to do at this point is to stop telling ppl you're a virgin...
2006-10-27 11:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by beau0021 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I lost mine when i was 19,i was like you worried about my first time,i took my time with my boyfriend then,but in the end it was fine,yes it was painful but it was ok,don't worry. Good Luck
2006-10-27 12:25:23 · answer #10 · answered by shazbust 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋