WE ARE BOTH TRUELLY IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER BUT WE ALWAYS HAVE MISUNDERSTANDINGS AND DISSAGREEMENTS WHICH RESULT IN US BREAKING UP WITH EACH OTHER.ITS BEEN 15 MONTHS NOW AND THE SAME **** IS STILL HAPPENING BUT NOW THAT WE BACK WITH EACH OTHER I DONT KNOW WHATS THE PROBLEM WE LACK COMMUNICATION AND WE RUN OUTA STUFF TO TALK ABOUT DURING OUR CONVERSATIONS AND THAT BOTHERS ME BECAUSE OUR CONVERSATIONS ALWAYS USED TO FLOW SMOOTHLY AND NOW IM CONFUSED.DO U THINK WE ARE JUST ED UP WITH EACH OTHER OR WHAT BECAUSE WE SERIOUSLY LOVE EACH OTHER TO BITS/MAYBE WE JUST STILL NEED TIME CAUSE I DONT WANNA LOSE HIM AGAIN EVER ITS TOO PAINFULL KNOWING THAT HE'S OUT OF MY LIFE AND NOW THAT I HAVE HIM AGAIN I AINT APPRECIATING HIM THAT MUCH EVEN THOUGH I STILL LOVE HIM LIKE AWAYS.
2006-10-27 04:22:15 · 5 answers · asked by baby khay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you're saying, it seems like your relationship has become a habit. You may be getting tired of each other because its become routine or just customary pattern for you guys to do what you do. I think that the both of you need more time to figure things out. You need to stop breakin and makin up and use that separation time to better yourselves. Use that time to learn more about what you can bring to a relationship. Its also helpful to realize what you can put into a relationship. It seems to me that you guys love each other, but you both need to love yourselves first, before you can truly love someone else.
2006-10-27 04:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Spirit♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bother line is that communication is the key
u need to get to the root of the problem
i ve learn when people have some much emotion riding in a relationship they tend to shy away and not communicate there feelings with each other either good or bad
whichs sucks
but talk to him and ask if u can do what u have to do
2006-10-27 11:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't truly in love. You just think you are.
In my experience, you can never go back, only forward.
As someone else said, it isn't going to work if it didn't work the first time.
One of you is trying to force something that isn't meant to be. I would forget about it, and move on.
You've already spent 15 months messing about - are you going to spend another 15, and be in just the same position?
2006-10-27 11:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it didnt work the first time its not going to work the 2nd 3rd or 10th time....if you cant get along ....then theres really no point in being with each other...maybe your timeing is just off...but to me id rather be alone then be unhappy....if you spend time alone long enough and see what else is out there youll look back and wonder why you ever dated anyways goodluck
2006-10-27 11:26:24 · answer #4 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fire dies in almost all relationships and the communication diminishes as well. Except that and you'll be better off.
2006-10-27 11:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by spedtrap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋