Ok look there is this guy at my school that likes me and he tells me how pretty I am every day and he calls me like 4 times a day. If I am out sick one day he calls during linch to make sure I am ok. But see here is the thing I have a boyfriend that I am maddly in love with I plan on marring him but I only get to see him on the weekends and I really need help with this? PLEZ HELP!!!!
2006-10-27 04:19:45 · 19 answers · asked by call_me_the_hot_1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay where you are, the grass always seems greener on the other side, but with some TLC to your own it will be just as goood
2006-10-27 04:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you like 14? Is this a real question? If you are maddly in love than tell this other guy to take a hike. If you like this other guy than you are not maddly in love. Or you just like the attention from other guys because it makes you feel good, like your BF isn't the only one intrested in you.
But no matter what, grow up!
2006-10-27 04:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't have them both hon! You either have to choose or just get over the other guy. And if this other guy knows that you are already in a relationship, he is being disrespectful towards your boyfriend and may not even want you anymore if you left your boyfriend for him. Some guys just want what they can't have. Think about that. Don't ruin a good thing over a guy that is just competing with your boyfriend.
2006-10-27 04:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better re-think the marriage thing. If you have doubts now about wanting this other guy... what will the future be like? Take a break from the guy who calls all the time. Let him know why and figure out your feelings before you get yourself in trouble.
2006-10-27 04:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by spedtrap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this other guy is because you are not really maddly in love with your boyfriend, think about it
2006-10-27 04:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just physically attracted to the guy in school... The feeling of love is easy but true love is hard to manage and maintain...but once true is there you would have unmeasurable happiness in life.... Dont easily give your boyfriend..
2006-10-27 04:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are flattered by his actions and you would really like to be his friend but that's all because you are already in a relationship and very happy! God Luck.
2006-10-27 04:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need some time to decide what you want to do and who you really want to be with--problem is that its not fair to your current boyfriend to wait around and be committed to you while you have these questions in your head--so my advice is to take a break from your relationship--and date the other guy thats on your mind so much---then decide whether or not you like him or your boyfriend better---
2006-10-27 04:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your still young and any thing could happen between you and you boyfriend so what i would do is just go out with the guy at school and i allways use this saying and its sooooooo tru.
WHAT HE DONT KNOW WON'T HURT!
good luck.
2006-10-27 04:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by retta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better be honest about it. ...but be careful to make sure what you really want before you mess up your other relationship. Also, make sure the other guy likes you.
2006-10-27 04:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋