what is a good way to get "good" guys to notice me... i seem to get a nice guy and it takes about a week and they are jelouse and getting mad when i talk to my other guy friends.. what can i do?? i am in relationship like this now but he is just a friend thats it and he has girlfriend she lives in cali.. and he gets really jelouse and fights with me i dont know how to handle this guy!! he also talks about marrying me too and i am like hellooo!! you have a girlfriend.. how should i handle this? and how can i get better guys?
2006-10-27 04:03:02 · 10 answers · asked by brandy h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't cause them to be jealous.
2006-10-27 04:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the rest of us know when you figure out how to get the good guy to notice you. Remember that a lot of nice guys are used to being walked on, and have come to expect it at every turn. As you start a relationship lay out the groundwork, explain you have guy friends that your relationships with them isn't gonna change. If the man your interested in can't accept that he's probably not the guy for you. Another way may be to include your new man, on a few excursions with the friends. This will help him see that you really are just friends. As far as your friend....Don't go there. Without a question if he's like this with her, he'll be like it with you. As far as him being jealous explain simply he doesn't have the right he's the friend only. If he can't take the hint maybe its time to let the friendship go. My only suggestion for the better guys is really take your time getting to know them. Make sure you understand each others view points on the male/female friendship angle and always stay open even when they don't like what you have to say.
2006-10-27 04:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you cant say you are in a relationship when the dude has another chic k. so when you say you are in a relationship you really mean "frendship." and your guy friend really has no right at all to get mad at you for talking to other dudes BECAUSE HE HAS A GF!!!!!! You do not belong to him he is takin thats his fault too. So what you need to do is figure out what the H*ll you want . You want a good guy? Stop being a bad girl!!!. Stop messing with guys that are not single, that causes problems as you can see. Find single guys! And when you find a guy, quit talking to other dudes. ONLY a REAL WOMAN can be with one man and one man only, and what I mean by that is a Real Woman can have one man an one man only in her life and thats what the good men love is a Real Woman. By not talking to other men, your man will get the idea that he really is the only man for you, and men just love to know that they are #1 Almighty. So if you cant control your hormones and you have to have all kinds of dudes around you like a High School Ho then maybe you dont deserve one of the good men. Good men are hard to find and even harder to keep.
2006-10-27 04:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by raylenejade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First leave the guy with the girlfriend alone. Men don't like it when their girlfriend hang out alone with other guys. So when you get a boyfriend include him in the conversation you have with other guys, that way it don't look as if you are hiding something and gives your boyfriend and your male friend a chance to become friendly.
2006-10-27 04:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, communicate some no longer elementary one. ok nicely i think of #a million does no longer deserve you and that i comprehend precisely the way you sense approximately rebounding to guy #2. yet i think of you may attempt and seize up with to #2 given which you for sure have emotions for him. it may be a bad decision to bounce head first into the courting with #3 once you are able to or won't like him like that. I say you may attempt and seize up with with #2 and #3 yet no longer #2 if he's largely a rebound :)
2016-10-16 11:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be with him if he freaks when you talk to other guys that are your friends. He is probably freaking b/c he is saying things to you when he has a girlfriend- so maybe he thinks that you are saying things to you guy buds when he is not around. (not that it matters b/c ya'll are not together)
Also are you sure he has a girl? And is not trying to sound like he does. If he does you do not want to be with him, b/c he might cheat on you- you could never trust him- if he doesn't then you don't want to be with him b/c he is giving you the impression that he is cheating on someone-
Looks like you need to move on-
2006-10-27 04:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all there No such thing as GOOD guys and stay away from your friend he's just try to sleep with you and guys always play with you to get you in bed like i love you i wanna marry you it all bullshit so don;t fall for it and the reason why he was getting jealous is if you get a bf he will sleep with first that all there is and find a bf for yourself a nice guy is not that hard to find but it will take time
2006-10-27 04:16:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, you didn't say if you wanted to be with this guy...
i would suggest saying, that you can't be in any relationship beond simple friendship with a guy that has a girlfriend.
if he starts talking about a future between the two of you, i would say but that can't happen because we are only friends...
i know it's not exacly nice, but i think he needs it to be shoved in his face, that he can't have two girls, and expect everything from them both...
2006-10-27 04:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your also having problems spelling jealous
2006-10-27 04:06:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
watever byeeee
2006-10-27 04:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by Tessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋