2006-10-27 04:01:09 · 36 answers · asked by kirsty d 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i told my husband that i was scared because i might be capable of infidelity. i have a crush on a guy at work. i mean he is half the man my husband is. i love my husband and he loves me. but we don't see each other that often and i need some male attention.he is always working and i'm always working. so we're both tired, we have two kids also. (didnt' cheat by the way, just have the urge, but i don't think i will ever follow up on it). So after i told him, he would call me and let me know he loves me or come take me out to lunch. that sort of thing. i still have that urge to go and kiss my crush but i don't think i'll ever do anything to jeopardize what i have right now., which is happiness.
2006-10-27 04:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes and yes and i can tell you I did it so it would be found out. I wanted the relationship to end. If you have a affair then i believe that is what you really want. I have been on the other side too and it is not a good feeling. I would never think of it in the relationship I am in now and i guess you know what is right and who is right it just happens
2006-10-27 04:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by ymekmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not an affair as such, but I knew I was in love with someone else, and so left my husband for them. Nothing had really happened with the other guy, but we had such a connection. We diiscussed out feelings and I decided to leave my marriage, as I thought if I was having feelings like this, then I couldn't say with my husband.
Me and the 'other guy' have been together nearly 3 years now and I've never been happier.
2006-10-27 09:49:22 · answer #3 · answered by starlorna22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iwould never have an affair.... if I was very attracted to a man I would fight it...if I didnt love my partner I would end the realtionship before I had an affair..
2006-10-27 04:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affairs are all part of the fun! Everyone should give it a go, it's a great way to spice up a dying relationship. Also, you tend to line up plans B, C, D in case everything does go the way of the dodo.
Never tell your partner though; all this misplaced hope in being honest and truthful is silly. To quote my aged Grandmother; 'What you don't know, doesn't hurt you'.
2006-10-27 04:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, when my ex husband starting playing around. Whats good for the goose...etc! It was fun for a short while but now I am divorced and in another wonderful stable relationship, I wouldnt dream of it. Oh and no, ex never found out.
2006-10-27 04:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes a long time ago i think if u have an affair or r thinking about it something is wroung in your relationship and i would look closer at that,but remeber once u have crossed that line u can never go back.good luck :-)
2006-10-27 04:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by kazznpodzz72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I have never had an affair. Why?? Pack your bags and leave the person you are with if you are not happy. There is no reason to rip their heart out!!
2006-10-27 04:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by Niecy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, and yes. we both had affairs at the same time but neither of us knew...until later. i guess we both felt that at that point in time we we weren't happy! we've worked it out and are getting married next summer! good luck! :)
2006-10-27 05:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by Laura H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband had an affair,with my so called best mate i got my revenge though i tore up all his clothes and threw them out of the window,i let down the tyres on her car,and then i told her mother who was also my friend and now she is being blanked by every one that knows her.(i think thats justice)and also i filed for divorce and took him for everything just what he deserved.
2006-10-27 04:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋