my b friend is a total flirt he is not as bad as he used to be but this does hurt my feeling what do u think?
2006-10-27 03:58:41 · 20 answers · asked by kazznpodzz72 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its human nature to flirt, and your boyfriend is no different from the millions of other people out their. The question is does he respect you enough to dial down the flirtation when your around? Explain to him that you trust him, but that when your out together you'd like him to flirt a little less. Keep a positive attitude though many guys aren't comfortable enough in their relationships to flirt while their girls are around. I found through personal experience that its the ones who don't flirt some while your around you have to watch out for. Men will be men and your never gonna change that, but a conversation may help a little. Good Luck
2006-10-27 04:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by novelwyrm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that flirting is a natural reaction that just kinds of comes out but there is a respectful time to use it. Like my boyfriend i know he flirts with other girls but i dont want him to flirt in front of me. I told him to, we both arent perfect because i do it to when he isnt around but that is it. I do not take it further and i know he isnt. Sometimes i flirt and i dont even realize it. So i think personally as long as he doesnt disrespect you and flirt while you are there and there is nothing wrong. Or that it just stays at flirting and it doesnt go to the next level but that is where the trust issue comes in. If really loves you then you shouldnt have to worry about his faithfulness to you. I hope everything works out for you and that you and your bf come into a understanding.
2006-10-27 11:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by homie_j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is mean and rude. My boyfriend has done this to me. While eating dinner out, he asked the waitress what she was doing after work, right in front of me. Wanted to know why I got mad. Wrong. Wrong. I am a flirt myself, but would never do it in front of him. Sorry about your luck.
2006-10-27 11:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lost in Maryland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my man flirted with anyone else I would feel like im not pleasing him
2006-10-27 11:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most guys want to have two gfs, you should not be hurt , you should be understanding too his needs and give him anything he wants - PS always remember he is a man and you are just a woman - I hope this helps you - good luck
2006-10-27 11:04:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like to me your boyfriend only wanted you for one thing. and if he still is flirting with other girls seems to me his taken but still looking.
I think you should be straight up with him tell him how you feel. and if it doesnt work out then you will find better. His letting you down as easy as you can, by giving you sings.
Tell him
" Look Im your girlfriend and I dont think its fair to me that your flirting with other girls. Your showing me no respect and showing me that you dont like me anymore. If you really want to flirt with other girls then I dont think we should be going out anymore. because if your dating you dont flirt. you flirt with the person your dating.
2006-10-27 11:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by allie laught alot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel. If he cares enough about you adn respects your opinion as your girlfriend he will tone it down. Guys who are too flirty can be a bad thing. So you should really talk to him and let him know.
2006-10-27 11:00:38 · answer #7 · answered by Goofita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i have a boyfriend that flirts NONSTOP!!! i have talked to him about it but i dont think that he can get what i am trying to say.. well i think that you should talk to him about it...and let him know how you feel when he does it...if he doesn't get what you are saying then either..let him go...or if your in love stay with him and try to work it out. if he does get what you are saying than, that means that he really cares and wants to be with you...i should take my own advice..huh :)
2006-10-27 11:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by kixter_2010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about his flirting and how his flirting makes you feel. If he just glosses over this, maybe your next BOYfriend will be more adult.
2006-10-27 11:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he isnt givin you the attention you deserve then that's not right and you shouldnt have to stand for it. If it contiues find another who will do the job he should be doin. But other than that you have every right to be upset.
2006-10-27 11:01:41 · answer #10 · answered by shawn305nda614 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋