i dont feel like doing anything. i dont even clean the house anymore or work out anymore i feel so unmotivated. what can i do to feel better? just start doing the the stuff again?
i am so afraid of failing at whatever i do in my life.
2006-10-27 03:53:15 · 9 answers · asked by california gurlie poo 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i am actually going thru the same thing, i was like a straight A student in high school, and now my GPA is 3.2. I am not sure what has happened, but i can't get my self to focus and study.
2006-10-27 03:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by franklino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had such times before? Has there been any change in your eating or sleeping habits? You mentioned not working out; are you not taking pleasure in other things that you usually enjoy. If any of these answers are Yes, you may be depressed. Has anyone in your family ever suffered from periods of depression? Committed suicide? You should know that depression is no longer a condition a person must "learn to live with." It's a treatable illness. If you think you may be depressed, you should see a COMPETENT physician -- not one who's going to pat you on the back and say, "Buck up." Don't miss out on your college fun or anything else good in your life. If yours doldrums continue, or have continued, for more than two weeks, try to find the energy to get some help.
2006-10-27 04:00:39 · answer #2 · answered by arag0rn111 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may have depression. Talk to your doctor. College is hard but don't be afraid of failure as that's how we learn. I had to retake my second year in Nursing school. I failed but the second time around I did so much better and understood so much more. Most of us go to college to have better lives, make more money. Depression can make you feel like every task it a mountain you have to climb over. You don't feel like doing anything. Your doctor can help. Contact me through this site if you need to talk more... Nance
2006-10-27 04:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by bramblerock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...well if you exercise a lot and you suddenly stop, all of your body becomes unmotiviated. So start there. Get out and do whatever you used to do, and i swear you will feel re-energized.Now as for cleaning...thats just not fun most of the time, so I'm not surprised you suddenly found a disintrest, but you need to get it done, so push yourself into doing it. Just get off your butt, no matter how much it sucks....you'll find your motivation somewhere...I promise.
2006-10-27 03:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by kbond312 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might need to see a doctor. Could be bad diet.
On the other hand, I don't know how many years you have been studying, maybe you need to take a year off studies, and do a physical job. - any job. After a year, you would be able to go back to school with more motivation.
2006-10-27 04:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly afraid of failing then I don't think that just letting yourself go is going to do you much good. Think about your future, if you can see yourself living in a minimum wage house, overweight and unhappy then keep doing what you are doing......if not then get off your butt and find your motivation again!
2006-10-27 03:59:15 · answer #6 · answered by TNL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh, this is very human, just calm down.
U need to set your mind to positive levels and let no negative get the power of your brain.
Eat B rich vitamin foods or get u some B12 and melt in mouth.
Tell yourself u will suceed, and prayer is the real key to it all.
Pray to Jesus and ask him to get all neg. thoughts out by the blood of Jesus.
u will see results immediately.
2006-10-27 03:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of concentration. too many other interesting side tracks.
Auto suggestion : think positive act positively.
2006-10-27 04:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by ketav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try seeing a doc. no one is perfect. you need to see life is full of mistakes to help us learn.
2006-10-27 11:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋