i loved someone so much..and i was so faithful.but he cheated me.and that's what really killing me..i need to do something to let him back to me..so i can say no, the i can reback all of my strength..can i?
2006-10-27 03:51:27 · 15 answers · asked by bobo w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the very best way to get to him is to get over him, have some class and don't stoop to his level, which will only make him retaliate and then you will just find your world a really s****y place as you deal with torment, acrimony and animosity. Keep your dignity, pack your bags and walk and cut off ALL communication with him. Everyone has a conscience, he will know why you have gone and will try to rectify it, if you TOTALLY ingore him, it will be the worst thing that can happen from his point of view.
2006-10-27 03:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Tipster 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Revenge will not help you, cleanse you of your hurt, or restore your 'strength'. The best way to help yourself is to work on healing independently of him. Nothing is harder to swallow for an ex that to see your former love doing well and moving on. I hope you'll take a more mature approach to this and not play pointless games.
2006-10-27 11:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make sure you look your absolute best everytime you see him or think you might see him. You've heard of Kindness Kills. Well its true. Act extra happy when you see him, like nothing in this world bothers you, even if it does. Act really nice. Besides the fact that you'll look gorgeous, you'll be acting like if he was no sweat. So on that note, he'll try to get back with you b/c your looking good and you expressed no type of feelings towards him. Which will have him running back to you. Then when he does you just watch him eat his heart out. You made your bed not lay in it.
2006-10-27 10:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show him that you are having a good time, enjoying life and gettingon with your life. That is the best 'revenge' you can dish out. He will kick himself because he had you, cheated on you and then lost you. He will see what he's missing out on.
2006-10-27 13:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge will get you no where. The only way that you will really heal is by forgiving. I know...like what?? But, it's true. Forgive him for being a loser and forget about him. Move on and find that better man who is out there for you!
2006-10-27 10:54:18 · answer #5 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. It will hurt him more if he see's you getting on with your life and having fun. If he thinks he still has a hold over you he has won. Don't let him see or know that you are upset. Now get on the phone to your mates and find out where the party is tonight.
2006-10-27 10:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is not the answer.. Love and Forgiveness.. are the only answer ..revenge will in the end make u hollow r u middle eastern?
2006-10-27 10:55:07 · answer #7 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even waste your time with trying to make him want you back. You don't want to put your energy into that because as soon as you say no he'll go to that other girl he was with... what you have to do is get him back and get him back good! A naked picture of him would help, you could make copies and put them in people's mailboxes in his neighborhood. If you have no naked picture you still have your hands right? I would suggest a good B*TCH SLAP!!!
2006-10-27 10:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by IceyFlame 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try a voodoo spell. Go to luckymojo.com.
2006-10-27 10:53:26 · answer #9 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he doesnt worth your efforts, let him go and somebody else will do the same to him. what goes around comes around.
2006-10-27 11:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by ------------------------ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋