I just dont know what to do. he's dated a black woman before, with bad results. ive never dated a white guy before. what should i do? he aalready gave me the go ahead to speak my mind and let him know how i feel. so now what? im scared to give him the note i wrote.
2006-10-27 03:46:32 · 18 answers · asked by hotmominpa2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look past the whole race issue. ITs how YOU feel about HIM. Its not what everyone else thinks. At the end of the day it comes down to the two of you.
The best way to put it comes from a great movie called something new and the quotes is, " at the end of the day its not about skin color or race. Its about the love connection. The vibe between a man and a women." And if you and him have that connection then go with it.
The two of you just need to be brave and go with it. Because whats meant to be will always fine a way. Whether or not other people see it that way or not. Love is love it has nothing to do with race.
2006-10-30 05:22:53 · answer #1 · answered by They call me snowflake <33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go for it. Just be honest with him about your thoughts and fears. There's no way to know if this guy is right for you or not until you spend some time with him. Just try to see past his color and see the kind of man he is. I'd also like to offer these words of advice as well...the real person doesn't show himself till later on in the relationship so be happy and enjoy the relationship but be carefull not to let emotion cloud your judgement. I'd say after two or three months you should have a good feeling of who he really is.
2006-10-27 03:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i understand how you feel having been in that situation before. i say if you think there's something there speak your mind and let the rest unfold. my bf is white and i'm black, at first we had problems because i had never dated a white guy before and even though i really liked him i kept on pushing him away. he was persistent because he really liked me and it worked out just fine. now i don't think of the color issue anymore. i'm not saying ur situation will turn out that way but give it a chance if you think there's something there, you never know what the result will be. good luck
2006-10-27 03:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anna Banana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way... I have never liked or went out with a white guy... but I guess if you like him a lot I would go for it... it also depends on what your wrote in the letter... if you told him straight up that you have never liked or dated a white guy, he should respect you for that and go slow with you so maybe things will work out... if he doesn't then you know it was never meant to be...
2006-10-27 03:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frist of all,stop looking at him as white or black or green or what ever,look at it as a guy that you act like you want to talk to.Just remember that there is good and bad in all races, so check out the person not the color, you`ll do better that way.
2006-10-27 03:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a go, I have never dated a black guy, i would love to.
Goodluck. You should give it a go, why not? U never know if u dont go
2006-10-27 03:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by ca4btts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im mixed race and my dad is nigerian/black and my mum is french/white. wen dey started t date ma da black women wuld say dat shes stealing dere men, well dey were basically being racist. how ever ma parents are still married. but mostly its about fammilys and culture coz not many black famillys or white alike approve. so dnt take it personally and maybe you shuld make the first move.
2016-03-28 09:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares about colors get that barrier out of your head. Its only society that makes u think twice about it. but all in all its still a person with 2 arms and legs. (hopefully) i say go for it. if you like him you like him. plus the babies are much cuter
2006-10-27 03:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! If you don't you may regret it, you never know he may end up being the love of your life!
2006-10-27 03:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Worse case scenario is that it won't work out, but how will you know if you don't try?
2006-10-27 03:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by M.A.X. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋