I went out with a guy for like 8 months. We broke up like 4 months ago but i can't get over him. I know he still loves me but, he won't show it. How do i make him want me?
2006-10-27 03:39:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he does not give you signs that he loves you, then probably he doesn't.
Try to drop him some hints that you want to go back with him. Look for excuses to talk to him or ask him out.
If he does not give you back any signals, then forget about him. Don't waste your life with somebody that does not feel that same way that you do.
2006-10-27 03:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say...you can't make anyone love you. If he's not showing you he cares then you should start looking for someone who appreciates everything you are and can show you the love your ex has stopped showing. Move on. Usually when you move on your ex sees you can still be happy without him and then somewhere in their minds they decide they wish they could make you that happy again and try to win you back.
Sad part of it all is usually when that happens.....you realize how much better off you are without them in your life and your much happier with your new boy.
2006-10-27 10:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by gdesigner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy really likes you then he will come around in his own time. You can't make someone feel something for you - love and affection must be freely given. Give him time and in the meanwhile start going out and really enjoying yourself. If he sees that you aren't 'needy' then he will want you even more if he is still interested.
2006-10-27 10:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't work then it will not work now or ever. Get over him, remember you'll broke up for a real reason. Don't think he'll ever change and be the perfect boyfriend that you are dreaming of b/c he simply won't. You seriously can't change anyone, accept them as they are or live separetly...
Please hang out with friends and families, go out more often, study, work, work-out ect. do things that are fun, healthy, ect. and please date other guys...whatever you are feeling it will go away with time, trust me...I've been there!!Have a wonderful weekend
2006-10-27 10:43:26 · answer #4 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, if you're a girl, there is more than one guy that likes you. If he won't show you he loves you, try to find someone else. If he really has feelings for you, he'll do what it takes to get you back. I know it's hard and it's hard to explain to you what to do. ...but you've got to be happy and this might mean moving on.
2006-10-27 10:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont be the pathetic ex girlfriend.
Get out, get on with your life, if he does still love you then seeing you with someone else, or just out having a good time, not waiting for him would kill him... and he would want back in your life. If not then he doesnt still love you and you have a life again instead of being hung up on him.
2006-10-27 10:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by billiecep2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you dont know he still loves you if he wont show it how do you know guys have different minds sister obviously he saw something prettier and younger so get over him by getting a new guy
2006-10-27 11:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu shouldn't make anyone say he loves you because in the end if he really did love you he would of been told you but in true life you can't make him say it.
2006-10-27 10:41:41 · answer #8 · answered by jamaicaladydread 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess he is scare to let everything out
fear of getting hurt again or fear of his ego
its happens
this is a sensitive situation
try to talk to him in a nice
dont immediately express ur feelings
just conv n when the timing is good
ask him how he feels about u
2006-10-27 10:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to his house! Get naked... no matter he loves you or not, they will still be a reaction! Action First, Talk Later!
2006-10-27 10:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by gerald j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋